What I've Been Eyeing Lately on The RealReal

Hi there, I’m a TRR addict and spend so much time on there (I always love the hunt!) and I just thought I’d put together a little list of things I’ve been eyeing lately! And nope this post isn’t sponsored (though tbh I definitely wouldn’t mind TRR sponsorship lol). Also I hope this exercise would help me see if I still love these items in the future (sort of like my What I Want/Bought posts). And if a reader also snags a good deal out of it, all the better.

Ulla Johnson top ($145): Still obsessed with puff sleeves and Ulla Johnson.

If this later qualifies for their usual 20% off (code: Real), I might just get it.

Lemaire Cashmere Cardigan ($116 with code REAL)

Lemaire has been a brand I’ve been wanting to try out. Christophe Lemaire used to be the womenswear designer at Hermes and I’ve always loved his minimal luxury looks. You can learn more about the brand here. You can find some really affordable Lemaire items on TRR and this one is pretty good for a 100% cashmere sweater.

Frame Le High Straight Jean ($52 with code REAL)

I have a Frame denim review coming up, but I only wear Frame jeans lately. And this Le High Straight is my current favorite. I have it in a medium blue color, but this black pair is simple yet chic.

Frame Le High Straight Jean ($40 with code REAL)

Same jeans but in a dark wash. Still awesome.

Mansur Gavriel Cloud Clutch ($495)

Ok so I don’t think I would actually buy this because I have no space in my life for a clutch. But I occasionally dream unrealistically about the Bottega Pouch and this MG version is about $2000 less so there’s that lol.

Jenni Kayne Silk top ($35)

And just to add some color to this line-up, this pink 100% silk sleeveless top is the perfect girly top for spring. I might get this once my credit from selling comes through (and as long as no one beats me to the punch, but if you do I understand—it’s a great deal lol).

Band of Outsiders Dress ($40 with code REAL)

I never could afford Band of Outsiders when they were still around (this brand is no longer producing clothes, at least not under the original team). But I love stalking TRR for their old pieces. This 100% silk dress is the perfect Cali summer dress.

PACT Review: Sweater Cardigan and Long Sweater Coat

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I apologize for this very delayed review of 2 PACT sweaters I purchased in November. Some sizes for these sweaters are now sold out, but since a reader had asked for a review, here it is! The first item I bought was this Long Sweater Coat in black in S/M. It’s 100% organic cotton and feels super soft and smooth. The weave is quite tight so I don’t have to worry too much about it stretching, sagging, or snagging. It’s a tad cold for a cotton cardigan, but I look forward to styling this with different outfits in the spring.

The second sweater I purchased was this sweater cardigan below. I wanted to try the rust color that they call Cinnamon Heather, but at the time they only had a L/XL. Since this was during the time I still had fibroids, I thought the bigger size would be fine to accomodate my pregnant-looking belly. Well it turned out that L/XL was much too large so I never really wore it. I also didn’t like that this sweater is made up of 20% wool, which made it itchy. So I decided to give this sweater to a friend. Anyways let me know if you have any questions about these sweater or PACT in general. And if you’re interested in purchasing, this referral link will get you 20% off your first purchase (thanks for your support)!.

P.S. I just saw that PACT has a new line of maternity clothes, which I wish they had when I was pregnant last year. I love their thick leggings, and their maternity ones looks great!

A Thank You Letter To Everlane

{Note: I wrote this before the Vice article came out and once it did I was tempted to not publish this. However, I decided to continue my support of Everlane because let’s be honest no one is perfect. Yes actions by management were a mistake, but the CX team did the right thing to unionize. Now they’ll definitely be heard and Everlane will have to work with them to come to an agreement. It’s hard trying to be an ethical company in a capitalistic society, and even though brands like Elizabeth Suzann do it well not everyone can afford them. And in the end I can’t just “cancel” a brand that has helped my blog grow in the beginning. I will continue to hope that they work to be a better brand in all aspects of their business. Leah also addressed this in her post here and I think she did a really great job.}

I’ve loved you Everlane from the very beginning (well not your beginning but my beginning of this blog). You were one of the first brands I reviewed and one of the very few that have endured. And that’s because I truly believe you make great products at reasonable prices, and you are always trying your best to be better. You’re open to feedback, you listen to your customers, and you try to do your best by them. So as I wind down Temporary Housewifey (don’t worry all my old Everlane review posts will still be available under my new blog name once I figure out how to migrate everything), I wanted to write a little thank you letter to you. And no, Everlane did not pay me a cent to write this.

So thank you Everlane:

-for being the “gateway” to more ethical clothing and conscious consumption

-for not giving me the digital marketing job 5 years ago when applied (I made it to the phone interview round and they were right not to hire me, I didn’t know what I was doing lol). Because of that I went to General Assembly SF and took a digital marketing course. This led me to be my own digital marketer when I started GoSilver (the Airstream business) with my husband (now no longer ours). It’s because of you that I had heard of digital marketing in the first place.

-for shipping the $1 pink tank top 3 years ago that I knew was a mistake on your end. But I always respected you for honoring the order.

-for being the brand that helped launch this blog in terms of reviews. Thanks to you and google search, I was able to take my first steps towards making money off of doing what I love (writing and judging, lol) with this massive reviews post.

-for being the first brand to gift me items. And for continuing to gift me items despite my sometimes severely delayed reviews and my sometimes critical review of your stuff.

I hope that we may both learn, grow, and continue to strive to do better so that we may both be even greater in the future <3

Victoria Beckham Beauty x Augustinus Bader Primer Review (aka the Cell Rejuvenating Priming Moisturizer) {Updated May 2021}

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You know how much I love my Augustinus Bader Rich Cream (reviewed here) so I was super excited to try the Victoria Beckham Beauty x Augustinus Bader primer (also known as the Cell Rejuvenating Priming Moisturizer). I was formally using the Augustinus Bader Cream in the mornings before makeup, and it worked alright as long as I let the moisturizer absorb completely. And then I would also use the Benefit POREfessional face primer, which I like for not breaking me out and also giving me a smoother surface for makeup application. So I thought wouldn’t it be great if I could replace those two products with this one? Also the Benefit primer has silicone in it which I’m trying to get away from.

Well, that would have been nice but unfortunately it isn’t quite that perfect. First off, it’s a great light moisturizing cream. I have acne-prone skin and I love that it doesn’t break me out. It moisturizes well enough, even in the winter. But I don’t see any transformative effects, though granted I’ve only been using it for about a month. I also am still using my AB Rich cream at night so I can’t really tell the effects of this moisturizing primer alone. I guess I’m a little meh about this priming moisturizer because it’s doesn’t really act a primer on its own. I still find myself using my Benefit primer over this one to get a really smooth starting canvas for makeup.

I do however like the bottle that this moisturizer comes in. It’s actually much better and feels way more luxe that the bulky plastic bottle the Augustinus Bader creams come in. The nozzle of the bottle is made from metal (aluminum I think?) and it dispenses really well. VB Beauty does make an effort in making their products sustainable and it shows with their packaging, from the bottle to the shipping materials. It was the first time I’ve received a package from a beauty company with non-plastic materials. Even the “dust bag” the item comes in reminds me of Celine bag dust bags.

Anyway I’m not sure if I would repurchase this item. But we’ll see how long this one bottle lasts. If it lasts longer and works just as well as the AB regular cream I might look into repurchasing this over the AB cream. I’m also interested to see how this primer will work with my makeup in the summer when my makeup tends to melt off more. But I’ll be sure to update this review answering all these questions in the future!

{May 2021 Update: So it’s been about a year and a half and I just finished this primer (I think I got the 30ml version). Granted, it was during a pandemic so I rarely wore makeup and thus haven’t touched this primer ffor most of the year. I think if I were to use this daily, I would be out in 6 months or so. Anyway now that I’ve finished it, would I repurchase? For me right now it’s a yes. I haven’t found any other primer I like that doesn’t break me out. I’m tempted to try the golden primer version but I’m afraid it might be too dark for my rather pale skin tone (and it’s pale because I avoid the sun like the plague). Also I’ve just recently joined the Augustinus Bader Club on their website where I earn loyalty points for future discounts, in which case I can re-purchase this primer at a slight discount (depending on the points I accumulate). Then I might try the golden one as well. If you’re interested in joining the AB Club to get 20% off your first order and a free body lotion with your AB replenishment order you can fill out this google form and I will send you the invite asap (usually within 24 hours). I’m a huge fan of the AB club since you can earn points to get savings on your next order, and if you do a replenishment order your 6th product is free. And I’m all for getting free AB products 😁

I purchased the two Primer set: one that is the original and one that is the golden. I’ll just say I’m still a huge fan of the original but I’m not a fan of the golden primer. I have a fairly light complexion and the golden makes me looks like I put on some bad self-tanner tbh. It doesn’t match my skin tone at all. Even under makeup, it changes my coloring a bit and I’m not a fan 🤷🏻‍♀️}

P.S. You can read all my other Augustinus Bader reviews here.

Weekend Update/Ramblings

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Have you guys seen The Talented Mr. Ripley? I’m a couple decades late, but I just saw it on Netflix and wow, what a cast! Young Matt Damon is so good in it! Also I love young, pre-Goop Gwenyth Paltrow and I always love Cate Blanchette. Plus the simple yet chic 90’s take on 50’s Italian styling is my vibe for this summer lol. {Also if you have the time, I thought the post that the pic came from (just follow the via link) was a great deconstruction of said style.}

Anyway how was your first full week of the new year? Pretty great I hope! I’m in my 5th week of recovery from the hysterectomy and I feel good. Can’t wait to get the all clear from my doctor to go back to the full swing of things, which includes lifting up my 24 pound 10-month old! And working out! Also because of the removal of my uterus and fibroids, I’m the lightest I’ve ever been. Though I’m quickly gaining the weight back since I haven’t altered the bad eating habits that I picked up during pregnancy (gimme all the carbs). But in the meantime I’ve gone back to enjoying clothes! It’s fun to style outfits and make an effort again. You can probably tell if you follow my Insta since I’m doing almost daily ootds now.

I’m also shopping a lot more and I have to remind myself to be mindful of my consumption. I am trying to purchase only used or slow fashion this year though I’m not making any strict resolutions. I picked up a 1997 Chanel skirt suit that I love. It needs some alterations but I hope it becomes a staple in my closet. I rarely buy expensive designer clothes (and when I do it’s always used), but I love being reminded of the beautiful quality that these kinds of clothes have. For example the jacket is sewn with multiple panels so that it comes in at the waist just right. The silk lining is perfectly done. It really is like wearing a piece of art, especially when you compare it to a similar jacket you might pick up at a fast fashion retailer. Anyway here are three ways I styled it:

If vintage Chanel suits are your thing, I recommend stalking them on the RealReal (current selection here). I’ve seen the best prices on TRR (I’ve seen some of these suit sets go for $1000+ on other sites, which is ridiculous). I was luckily able to snag this one for $325. There’s another skirt suit from the same 1997 collection here but I’d wait for the price to come down a bit. Anyway I don’t normally call my clothing purchases “investments” but I gotta say this is as close to it as it gets. I really hope that both this skirt suit and I age well together.

Ilana Kohn Review: Harry Jumpsuit

I’ve seen a lot of Ilana Kohn on the Insta-sphere so even though I wouldn’t normally try on such a wide-legged jumpsuit, when I saw this Harry Jumpsuit for a good price on the RealReal I couldn’t resist.

First a little bit about the brand Ilana Kohn: all their items are made in NYC. They are quality garments and that’s probably why a jumpsuit like this originally retails for $300+. And I’m assuming for that price they pay their garment workers a living wage (but I don’t know that for sure nor is there any info about that).

{Above Pic Wearing: Everlane tee, Ilana Kohn Jumpsuit, Martiniano Glove Shoes, Lululemon bag (old) // Top Pic Wearing: Everlane tee, Ilana Kohn Jumpsuit, Everlane micro form bag, rag & bone booties (old, similar here), Janessa Leone hat (from the RealReal, similar here)}

I figured if I didn’t like the jumpsuit I could easily return it but for $116 it was definitely worth a shot. And to my great surprise, I really love it. At first I thought it wouldn’t work for me since it’s so long and the indigo material is heavy (like jeans). But once I slipped it on, it was really comfortable and fit well. I got a size small and I’m 5’4”. The chest are and arm holes are perfect (I’m pretty flat chested so this jumpsuit might not work for the more buxom figure). The only thing I wasn’t too sure about was the length (especially when I see it on the model here). I want to hem it but I took two polls over on Insta story and the majority of you guys say don’t hem it. I might still hem it lol >.<

The only thing I don’t like about this jumpsuit (other than the price-eek!) is that the zipper in the back goes all the way up so it’s a tad difficult getting this on and off in a hurry. Also because of the wide legs, you gotta be extra careful when going to the bathroom so nothing touches the ground. But those are very minor things. Overall, I really love this jumpsuit (even though my husband likened it to plumber overalls lol).

It’s currently winter (in California) so I’m wearing a shirt underneath this jumpsuit. But it’ll definitely work in the summer too since it’s sleeveless and falls away from the body. So even if the material is on the thicker side, I don’t think I’ll overheat in it (but I’ll update you guys on how it is when I wear it when summer rolls around).

Anyways if you’re interested in trying them out, I see Ilana Kohn jumpsuits pop up on the RealReal once in awhile (current Ilana Kohn selection here).

Unsponsored Jenni Kayne Mules Review: Are They Worth It? {Updated May 2023}

So you guys I finally did it. After talking about them for almost the whole year (actually I first talked about them in September of 2018), I just decided to finally buy the Jenni Kayne mules (even though I also recently added the St. Agni mules to my collection). Do I really need another pair of mules? No, but I’m blaming the pain meds post-surgery for this one. Or maybe it was the “I feel sorry for myself” shopping urge lol. Either way I’m glad I purchased them because I can now finally stop talking about them. And tl;dr: I’m returning them! Yep, all that energy and time spent pining for them was wasted because these shoes are not comfortable (at least for me).

My biggest issue with these mules is the quality of the leather. I got the natural oiled leather version and tbh the leather feels like cardboard. It’s super stiff without any of that stretch you expect from leather. My St. Agni mules (reviewed here) feels like a luxurious glove on your feet. This one? Not so much. The Jenni Kayne version uses elastic bands to try to get the mule to hug your feet, which is kind of a cheap solution for a pair of shoes that cost $395. Maybe the regular leather version has more stretch and feels more luxurious but since they only come in black and I already have a ton of black mules, I’m going to pass. Even Everlane’s Boss Mules feel more luxurious and hug the feet better than these Jenni Kayne ones (and for the current price of $84, the Everlane mules are a steal!). Though I should mention my absolute favorite mules are the St. Agni ones.

Also the there’s no padding on the insole of these Jenni Kayne mules so I can imagine prolonged walking in them would be uncomfortable. They do run TTS though and the 38 fit me fine.

Overall I’m very disappointed in these mules (though my wallet is rejoicing). I guess you never know how something is going to be unless you try it for yourself, and sometimes it’s worth it to just bite the bullet and buy it so you can stop pining for it. I think in general I love the idea and aesthetic of Jenni Kayne but I feel like I can build a more quality wardrobe of basics with the current ethical brands I already purchase from.

{May 2023 Update: Even though my love for my St. Agni mules are going strong, I decided to return to these Jenni Kayne mules because I really need to give my St. Agni ones a break sometimes. Plus I needed something other than a black shoe. So when I found a navy suede pair of these Jenni Kayne mules for $100, I decided to give JK another chance. And I’m glad I did because I really do like these shoes now. It probably helped that someone else already broke these in a bit so the fore foot area was a bit roomier and also much less stiff. I will say I don’t wear the JK mules when I know I’ll be walking a lot because it still pinches at the forefoot area (right where it creases) on my left foot (maybe my left foot is slightly wider?). Anyway I think for $100 they’re a great second pair of mules for me though I still probably wouldn’t pay the $395 (thought I have to say after 3 years they haven’t raise the price at least.}

Weekend Update/Ramblings

Hi y’all, it’s 2020! Wow I feel like this decade is going to be a big one! Anyway I hope you all had a wonderful and loving holiday. I tried focusing on family, friends, and love this holiday season and I have to say it was one of the best (but of course a baby will also make it special). But now I’m particularly motivated to “go for it” or as I’m calling it “reach 2020” (lol, I talk about it a little in my New Years Resolution post). I’m going to try to make this blog thing a legit thing where someday I hope to be able to live off of my writing. Or am I dreaming? Well I won’t know whether or not I can do it until I try, reach for it, and ask for things.

So my first act of “reaching” (other than to state it here) is I’m going to sell some of the items that I received as gifts. Now normally when the gift comes from a friend or family member I have no qualms about selling it, but when it comes to brand-gifted items I know I’m stepping into gray territory. So in the past I’ve either gifted them to somebody else or sold them and put the money towards a nonprofit. I still plan to do some of that, but I also feel like it’s ok for me to want to get paid for all the reviews I do. Currently I get paid in merch, and if I don’t covert that into some kind of money then I’m basically doing it for free. I do understand though that I’m reviewing these items so to just turnaround and sell them seems shady. But these are great things, it’s just that I have too much stuff! Also to remedy this, I plan to do less reviews for free (or for more stuff) and instead ask for sponsorship from key brands in the future (also part of my “reach 2020” campaign lol). But what do you guys think? Is it unethical to sell things that I received as gifts to review?

Annual New Year's Resolution Post

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I’ve been writing a New Year’s Resolution post for the last couple of years but this year I think I have resolution fatigue. Or maybe it’s because my life has been so tumultuous this year, that I’m just too tired to try to tackle “me-improvements”. Also my shopping hasn’t been way out of control (though of course I’m still consuming more than what is ideal) so I’m not going to try to make closet-related resolutions.

Actually as I was typing this, there was one resolution I could think of: eat less meat. I am thoroughly convinced that eating meat (or at least large quantities of it) is bad for the environment and for my own personal health. Maybe you guys can help me and point me towards some vegan recipes you love?

Also coming this year is a blog name change (I know I know I keep talking about it). I finally got my husband onboard to be my IT help to move all my content to a new url and to change the design of the blog. So these will be the final months of blog posts under Temporary Housewifey. It’s going to be a new year and a new blog folks!

{Update 1: Okay it’s been about a week since I first wrote this and I have decided to add a couple more resolutions because c’mon it’s 2020—a new decade folks! I was inspired by Renee’s post about working for what she wanted and so I decided I’m going to be intentional and reach for what I want too. Currently I want to be able to support my family by writing this blog. I’m not exactly sure how I’ll be able to get there but I feel like I’m on the right path, and I’m going to work to make it happen. Even if it means asking for things I think are a stretch (ie sponsored posts or other brand partnerships). And another resolution I’ll be working towards is a low-waste lifestyle. I know that real change in this arena has to come from governments and businesses but I can’t stand idly by and do nothing as our earth chokes with plastic and pollution. I can never be zero-waste but I’m going to renew my efforts to get to low(er)-waste. Ok so what are some of your resolutions?}

{Update 2: Guess this is how my posts look if I start writing them out too early, lol. But if you saw my insta post, I am going to have at least one closet related resolution: curb my online window shopping habits and pay a carbon tax at the end of the year for any (or more like all) of my return shipping. It’s the ethical thing to do especially if I’m trying to be an ethical blogger right?}

Thank you for all your support

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Hi guys, I just want to say thank you all for your support on this blog or on Insta through the years. I never expected to make such great internet friends by writing about what I like on the blog here. And I’m especially grateful to you all this year. It was a super tough year for me: first year without my dad, first year with a baby, 2 moves, and 2 surgeries. It was like life was giving me whiplash. And now that I feel like I’m finally on the road to healing, I want to take the time to appreciate all of you who sent me personal emails, dm’s on instagram, and even a gift directly (thanks Henny!). I was thinking of doing another giveaway here but I decided to set-up something a little more lasting (don’t worry I have some giveaways planned for the future!). So today I wanted to share with you guys this spreadsheet with some of the promo codes that I earned from your support. I am so lucky that your purchases through my links have given me so much. On this spreadsheet you’ll find promo codes for $20 off Outdoor Voices, $50 Sarah Flint, $25 off Lovevery, and free Willow Pump bags. The only rules are: please only take them if you’re going to use them and please strikethrough the codes you have used (and not delete them). I’ll be updating the spreadsheet periodically so if you’re planning on making any purchases from these brands, check this spreadsheet for some $$ off :)

{Update: Oops just realized that you guys couldn’t edit the sheet. I just fixed it so now anyone can edit, thanks!}

{2nd Update: Sorry for those who tried to edit it this morning. Somehow access was changed, but now anyone who clicks through the link above should be able to edit now. Please let me know if you can’t edit it, thanks!}

{2021 update: It’s been awhile since I’ve updated that spreadsheet so I got rid of it. I am doing a new promo code spreadsheet that can be found via a Buy Me Coffee Membership here.}

What I Bought in December

What I Bought

Bosch Dishwasher 500 series: Technically we purchased this in November, but I forgot to add it to last month’s list. Decided to add it now here because seriously this was one of my most expensive purchases this year (but also one of the best!).

Jenni Kayne Mules: Finally bought it after talking about it for over a year. Review coming real soon (but spoiler: it was a disappointment).

Jennifer Fisher Small Heart Charm (pictured above) and Salt Trio: I’ve been following Jennifer Fisher for awhile on Insta and I really respect her hustle but also her down-to-earthness. And she has great taste both in style and in the kitchen. She’s who I want to be when I grow up lol. So I finally splurged on a small piece of fine jewelry with my dad’s initial and her signature salts that I’ve been wanting to try.

Farmacy Green Defense Daily Mineral Sunscreen: I finally finished the sunscreens I got from Paula’s Choice and as much as I liked them for not breaking me out, they had benzenes in them. Oxybenzene and avobenzene are hormone disrupters and coral killers (that’s why they’re banned in Hawaii). This Farmacy sunscreen is mineral based and uses zinc oxide. So far I’m really liking it because it isn’t greasy, it doesn’t break me out, and it doesn’t leave my skin chalky. Also just because it’s winter doesn’t mean you can skimp on the sunscreen. UV rays can still cause damage on cloudy days (lol sorry for the mom rant).

Kosas Tinted Face Oil Foundation and Wet Lip Oil Gloss: My usual tinted sunscreen/foundation is a bit too dark during these winter months so I went looking for a new foundation. I found a couple reviews of Kosas and I was eager to try this clean beauty brand. I added the lip gloss because I had that VIB promo code from Sephora.

Bon temps tea: Since my almost-ulcer episode before my surgery I’ve stopped drinking coffee so I’ve been whittling down my tea stash. Now that I’m looking to buy more tea, I wanted to make sure I wasn’t drinking tea with microplastics or any other toxic chemical. Bon temps uses non-GMO organic corn-based tea bags that are biodegradable and their teas are all organic. And I’m not going to lie, their fun 70’s Great Gatsby-esque packaging was also a major draw lol.

What I Was Gifted

Mejuri Bold Link Chain: My second gift from Mejuri and I talked about this chain and being an affiliate for them here.

Everlane ReNew Travel Tote: I love my Longchamp travel tote, so I was curious to see how Everlane’s 100% recycled nylon version compared. Will let you know in a review soon!

So in conclusion…

What do you guys think of this “What I Bought” series? Is it interesting to you and would you like me to continue writing it next year? I know I like writing them because it helps me keep myself accountable to what I’m buying and receiving. But do you guys like reading it? Your feedback would be most helpful, thanks!

What It's Like To Be A Mejuri Affiliate and a Review of Their Products {Update: January 2021}

*I received two items for free in exchange for two Instagram posts but this blog post is not sponsored (in fact they don’t even know I’m writing this).

Recently I had the enlightening experience of being asked to promote Mejuri for the holidays on Instagram (even though I have a relatively small Insta following). I know I wrote awhile ago that I was done with costume jewelry because in some ways they’re like fast fashion (something pretty to wear but not something that will last), especially when compared to fine jewelry (which I know I’m so so so lucky to have received from my grandmothers and mom). But I decided to make an exception this time because 1) I’ve been wanting an ear cuff for awhile now but I’m not about to spend the big bucks on a solid gold one and 2) I wanted to know what it was like to be a part of the marketing machine that is Mejuri. In a lot of ways they remind me of the watch brand Daniel Wellington, which blew up because they gave so many influencers on Insta a free watch for a plug.

What it’s like to be a Mejuri affiliate

Mejuri sends out a very generic email asking if you’d like to participate in their promotion. The email includes a link where you can pick your item from a menu of select pieces (about 4 to choose from) and outlines their posting guidelines. They tell you what they want to see in the caption (in this case a promotion of their sale), what they want to see in the picture (no other jewelry), and the date you need to post by. I have to say that overall it was an interesting experience to be a part of the Mejuri program but everything was a tad impersonal and felt quite corporate. But I feel jewelry should be personal and meaningful, since these are items that are meant to be cherished. Translating an impersonal experience into a personally meaningful post was a bit challenging for me, which is why I guess I resorted to humor instead. I seriously didn’t think I was going to be asked again for another gifted item (especially since my post got 40 likes—an all time low). But surprise surprise they asked me again in December. I couldn’t resist because they happened to offer the Bold Link Chain, which is exactly what I’ve been jonesing for (thanks to being influenced by Jennifer Fisher and her long link chains). We’ll see how long this partnership lasts considering my minor influence on Insta lol.

Review of Mejuri Items

Even though I don’t personally purchase gold plated jewelry anymore, gold plated jewelry can be just as meaningful as the solid gold kind when purchased for the right reasons and occasions. Gold plated jewelry also can last as long as you take care of it (don’t wear it in water, wipe it down after wearing, and taking it off every night). Also if you really love it and want to keep it forever, jewelry can be replated in gold. So if you’re going to get a fun bauble for yourself as a reward or request it as a gift, you can’t go wrong with Mejuri. Each item comes wrapped carefully in a box and a canvas pouch, so when you’re unboxing it, it feels incredibly special. The jewelry is sturdy and has a nice weight to it. This isn’t your cheap H&M jewelry hanging on a plastic tag and stacked on rods. And this isn’t the kind of costume jewelry meant to be thrown away or dumped in a Goodwill box when you tire of it (December 2020 Update: I sold one of my Mejuri pieces on ebay and got about 70% of the price). I should mention that Mejuri also sells solid gold fine jewelry for really decent prices and I have been tempted by their stuff from time to time.

The croissant dome ear cuff that I received first is a great fashion piece that adds a little flair to the ear. It’s easy to put on and works well with any other gold earring you might have on. It stays put so you can rest assured you won’t lose it, but it doesn’t pinch the ear either (but to be totally transparent I only wore it for 3 hours at a party and not all day). {Edit: I wore it all day yesterday and it was just as comfortable—no pinching at all. This makes me want to get another ear cuff from them…}

The second item I chose was the bold link chain. It’s a beautiful necklace with some weight to it. Like I said above, this necklace fulfills my craving to try a Jennifer Fisher type of chain necklace without breaking the bank.

I do admire Mejuri for being open about the factories they work with (detailed here). The jewelry business can be quite shady (blood diamonds anyone?) so having factories that are part of the Responsible Jewelry Council where they are audited and held to ethical standards is definitely a step in the right direction. Mejuri also has a two year warranty on their jewelry which is pretty unheard of. And to tell you the truth, in the time it took me to write this post (over several weeks) I’ve come to change my mind about Mejuri. I think their prices and quality are really good, so even if you’re looking for something like a wedding band, you should definitely check out Mejuri. I also love that they offer engravable jewelry and they engrave it for free. Personally I really want this signet ring, this boyfriend bold chain, this bold chain ring, or this single diamonds line mini hoop. Looks like I know where I’m going to shop the next time I’m looking for a piece of jewelry to mark a special occasion!

{Update: I went to the soft opening of their store in SF (Hayes Valley) yesterday and I gotta say I’m pretty impressed with the quality of their jewelry as well as the graciousness of their staff. I also came away with a long list of other items I want to buy but I gotta hold off for now because of financial responsibility lol.}

{December 2020 Update: So after writing this post I’ve had several inquiries as to how exactly I got Mejuri’s attention. Unfortunately I don’t know how they found me, especially since I have a fairly low follower count on Instagram. But I have been writing this blog for about 6 years now and do show up on Google search for certain topics. My best guess is that since my blog has been around for awhile, it shows up on some kind of index for Bay Area blogs. And because they were looking for Bay Area affiliates back when they were opening a store in SF that’s how I popped up. If you’re interested in working with them I suggest reaching out to them with a media kit.

Also I wanted to add that for the first time I’ve purchased something from them that I had been eyeing: their Dome Ring. I wanted something bold but simple and this beauty is just the ticket. As for all my other gifted Mejuri items, they’ve held up great with no tarnishing or signs of wear. I’ve heard from others that some of their gold vermeil items tarnished but I since they have a 2 year warranty on their items I suggested they touch base with Mejuri to see what they could do. Also I didn’t purchase my ring during their Black Friday sale though I should have since that’s the only sale they have all year and it’s a pretty good one (10% off for one item, 15% for 2, 20% for 3+). If you’re eyeing something from them and can wait, I would suggest waiting for their sale (which is what I intend to do next year). Also if you have Rakuten, you usually can get a bit of cash back with Mejuri purchases.}

{January 2021 Update: Got my Mejuri ring and I looooove it. It’s easily my favorite piece and even though it’s gold vermeil and not solid gold I don’t mind one bit (especially this is the type of ring I would normally put on for occasions and not wear everyday—for everyday stuff I would still recommend getting solid gold). But for $60, this ring feels like it should be at least $160. It has a beautiful weight to it and it just feels really nice. But I’ll update this post with how it wears over time (and I hope it fares well!).

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Weekend Update/Ramblings

Hi guys, I’m alive and kicking! Well more like alive and trying not to hunch over as I walk, but still alive lol. The pain from surgery is gradually getting better every day and I’m on less pain meds (at least I’m off the hard stuff). My stomach is still slightly puffy but nowhere near as big as it was. The fibroids were a total of 8 pounds!! Losing 8 pounds in one day feels amazing. In other good news, the fibroids were not cancerous so I don’t have to worry about that (there was a very small possibility that they were cancerous which would have been “terminal” as my doctor put it). Now I’m slowly getting into the swing of things and being careful not to pick up anything heavy (including my 23-pound 9 month old). It’ll be another 4 weeks or so until I can safely pick her up, so my mom and my husband are taking care of most of the baby duties (which to be honest feels like I’m on vacation lol).

A Thank You Jewelry Giveaway (+ Bonus Giveaway) {CLOSED}

It’s a tad late this year but just like last year and the year before, I’m giving away an item of jewelry from my personal collection. I am just so grateful for all of you guys who read and support my blog with your time and clicks. And especially this year with my dad’s passing and my multiple health issues, I am forever grateful for all of you guys who sent me supportive messages or good vibes my way.

This year is another vintage item I purchased from Etsy. I love the bold earring look but tbh it’s not really my style. So I want to pass it on to a reader who can use it more than I can. This is a 10K gold post earring (sorry the whole thing is not solid gold) which I purchased from an Etsy shop based in the UK. It’s absolutely unique and you’re not going to find it anywhere else!

Also thank you to everyone who purchased through my referral link on my Lovevery Review. They now give me $25 promo codes for everyone who purchases through my link and since I’m not currently purchasing any more Lovevery items I want to pass them on to you (I have 3 to give). So if you’re interested enter the form below. Same rules as the giveaway above!

Luxe Refill Review

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After I wrote about my zero waste shower routine here, I was contacted by a new-to-me zero waste bath and body products brand called Luxe Refill. They kindly gifted me the set pictured above (all in the Luxe Lavendar scent) in exchange for a review, but of course all opinions here are my own.

Just like some other zero waste bath product companies their bottles are all aluminum and are returnable to the company when you order a refill. They do offer plastic pumps for the aluminum bottles, but they are only sent with your first shipment and are meant to be reused. And if your bottle is too banged up to be reused, they are recyclable just like an aluminum can.

So let’s start with my faaavorite of the bunch: the after shower oil. I’ve tried several different kinds of body oils in the past and I find oils perfect for these super dry winter months. I love their after shower oil because it’s moisturizing without being greasy and it absorbs easily into the skin. The scent is not overpowering. And this oil has been great for my sensitive skin (some oils give me red bumps, even on my body, but not this one). This would also work great as a massage oil if you’re lucky enough to know an amateur masseuse/masseur.

I also really liked the shea butter lotion, which was less scented and a much lighter moisturizer. It also absorbed quickly into the skin and didn’t give me any irritation. My only complaint is that it was a tad too thick for the small pump bottle it came in so I had to dispense the lotion old-school-ketchup-bottle style. This lotion might dispense better in the bigger sizes though.

The daily shampoo and conditioner were great and got the job done. The conditioner though wasn’t super thick and moisturizing but that’s probably what their deep conditioning cream is for. The only product that I wasn’t a huge fan of was their gentle body wash, but that’s because I prefer more gel-like body washes that foam up easily while theirs was more of a milky-type body wash.

But I love that all their products are 100% natural and plant based without any parabens, artificial colors or synthetic fragrances. Also all of these products that I tried are vegan. So if you’re looking for some great zero waste bath products I definitely recommend giving Luxe Refill a try (and you can use the code HW20 to get 20% off your first purchase).