Everlane Sweater and Silk Shirt Review {updated March 2017}

{update 3.2.17: As some of my friends (ok just one friend, hi Tiff! lol) call me Ms. Everlane Guru, I have amassed 50 (maybe 60?) reviews of Everlane items that can be found here sorted by clothing type, or here sorted by my favorites->least favorite}

So this is part 2 of my Everlane clothing review.  Part 1 was the Everlane tee shirt review and before that, I reviewed the Everlane Petra Magazine Tote.  I also have the Everlane Modern Loafer and I the Everlane Street Shoe on the way so I'll be doing reviews about their shoes next.  What can I say, I'm semi-obsessed with their stuff.  But I promise that's it...until I buy anything else from them (though looking at what's coming, I'm a bit iffy about Everlane's next releases).  Hopefully this review will help you figure out your Everlane sizing.

Like the tee shirt review, I'll be listing what I have, a quick note about quality, and what size I wear (I'm usually a size 4 or small on top, size 2 at places like GAP or sometimes Jcrew){note: I like my sweaters on the looser side, so if you are fit and like them fitted I say size down}:

- My first sweater and all-time favorite item from Everlane, is their seed-stitch sweater.  Unfortunately it's no longer being sold, but I would say the closest cousin is the Cotton Crew Neck Sweater.  But the weaves are different and it looks like the Cotton Crew might stretch out a bit {but I don't really know since I've never tried it}.  My black seed-stitch sweater is pictured below.  It's the perfect weight for a layered look during the summer in San Francisco (which as I type this post is a very cool 58 degrees).  I got it in a small, and it's still over-sized, but it's perfect for wearing over a collared shirt for a preppy look.  I've washed this numerous times and it stayed perfectly in shape.  I really hope Everlane brings back this sweater!

- My next purchase was the Everlane Short-Sleeved Sweatshirt (pictured in navy on the model in the top picture).  I purchased it in black and in a small.  The fit, again, is oversized but I think it works well with the look (as long as you're wearing skinny jeans).  The quality is again excellent, with a heavy cotton weight.  I don't wear it as often as I'd like because it's hard to find the right temperature for a sweatshirt but also short sleeves, but I still love the look.

- I also have the Everlane Crew Sweatshirt in Grey Marled (pictured on the model on the right).  I got this in an XS, but wish I had gotten it in the S.  It comes up a bit short around the waist on the XS size, but the fit is boxy.  I think if it's going to be an oversized fit, then it would look better longer than too short.  Quality is also great and I would say the price is reasonable for $40.

-The last sweater I bought was the Everlane French Terry sweater in both cool grey and heather brick.  I bought the heather brick in XS, but it was too snug and I didn't like the color.  So I tried again with the French Terry in grey size small.  But unfortunately I don't really like that one either though the fit was a little better.  The material is wonderfully soft so I could still wear it as loungewear during the winter, however the way the sweater falls on the body is not flattering unless you're literally a model {specifically, if you have any hint of a muffin top, the bottom hem of the sweater kind of clings to it--ick not flattering at all}.  Also the maintenance of washing by hand is just not for me (it's made of polyester, rayon and spandex). 

For other peoples' take on Everlane's sweaters: Review of their cashmere sweater, and another one about cashmere, and a review of their crew sweatshirt. 

I also have Everlane's silk sleeveless blouse in black (on the model on the the left in the picture above).  It's the only silk thing I own from Everlane.  I think the quality of the silk is great; it's feels pretty thick and durable.  It's not cheap for $60 but worth it.  {When writing this post I just took a look at the item on their website, and who knew it only costs $27 to actually produce this item (and $33 for long sleeves).  Just think about the mark-up at places like Equipment, which sells silk shirts for at least $200.}  I bought a size small and it fits perfectly.  I'm eyeing the modern point silk shirt and might do another separate review of their silks if I get that one as well.     

For my other Everlane reviews (on shoes, shirts, and their Petra tote) the links are listed on the right if you're on a computer, or scroll to the bottom if you're on your phone (all reviews are done with items I've purchased for myself and are not sponsored, but if you'd like to help me purchase more items to review, my referral link is here, Thanks!).

Monday Muse: My Cookie Recipe for Happiness and Baking with Chef Ryan

After watching Hector and the Search for Happiness (last week's Monday Muse) I had this idea that the pathway to happiness is a lot like a cookie recipe (stay with me on this one, it's gonna be one long metaphor here).  Everyone has their own favorite cookie recipe but all cookie recipes have similar base ingredients like flour, butter, sugar, eggs etc.  And in much the same way, everyone's recipe for happiness is different but with similar foundations (like Maslow's hierarchy of needs).  So here is my personal recipe for happiness.  

5 cups of basic needs: physiological needs (food, water, shelter) and security (living in a safe country and a safe neighborhood)

4 cups of quality friends and family

4 cups of a happy marriage

4 cups of financial security (this may seem high to some, but I'm just being honest here.  I learned in my marketing class that income dictates needs, and I have grown accustomed to certain needs.  For example wifi, LTE, and an iPhone and personal laptop have become needs).

4 cups of finding my element/the thing that gives me "Flow".  For a long time I had trouble finding this ephemeral "flow".  I was bored at my job and bored at home, and thus spent my time passively consuming (food, tv, material items, you name it).  Once I quit my job (and after a prolonged period of consuming--what can I say, old habits die hard), I've finally found my flow in producing (taking pictures, writing this blog, food and drink recipes, etc.). Now there's not enough time in the day to do all the things I want to accomplish.

3 cups of learning.  I just love learning, and do especially well in school-type environments (aka I'm a nerd) but I'm also learning the art of self-teaching (with the internet as my textbook).  Right now I'm learning all I can about marketing and specifically digital marketing, which I'm finding is the art/science of cutting through the daily internet noise so that your target audience can hear you (*wave* hello target audience!).

3 cups of physical activity.  For me this is mostly running and yoga.  For a while I neglected this part of my life and though I wasn't unhappy without it, my moods tended to stay at a lower baseline level.  Physical activity helps me clear my head and is a form of meditation.  Also it allows me to fully enjoy the next ingredient:

2 cups of delicious mouth-watering food (of all kinds).  I live to eat.

2 cups of meditation/a gratitude practice.  I also try to meditate frequently.  I find that by meditating I can bring my focus back to the present, it allows me to step away from my "monkey mind", and I'm grateful for more things in my life {Reading 10% Happier by Dan Harris helped me start my meditation practice.  I really like this book.}

3 cups of helping others/of being useful to people/making contributions to the world around you.

Season with large quantities of free time and a sprinkling of travel and a dash of good music.

Bake in good vibes/luck and at a low temperature.

Was that too cheesy for ya?  Well sometimes we all need a little cheese, or at least cookies.  And if you were expecting an actual recipe with this post, here is my recipe for my favorite chocolate chip cookies (I like mine soft but not too doughy) {found on Allrecipes 6 years ago}.  

2 cups all purpose flour

1/2 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

3/4 cup unsalted butter, melted

1 cup packed brown sugar

1/2 cup white sugar

1 tablespoon vanilla extract

1 egg

1 egg yolk

2 cups semisweet chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 325 degrees F, line cookie sheet with parchment paper

Sift together the flour, baking soda, and salt

Cream together the melted butter, brown sugar and white sugar.  Beat in the vanilla, egg, and egg yolk.  Mix in sifted ingredients until just blended.  Stir in the chocolate chips by hand.

Drop 1/4 cup of cookie dough onto cooke sheets about 3 inches apart.

Bake for 15 minutes or until the edges are lightly toasted.  Let it cool (or don't and then burn your mouth like I do).

And to showcase my point of different cookie recipes for different people, here is the recipe to Chef Ryan's cranberry oatmeal cookie (pictured above){adapted from Martha Stewart}:

1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, room temperature

1 cups packed light-brown sugar

1 cup granulated sugar

2 large eggs, room temp

1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

3 cups old-fashioned rolled oats

1 cup plus 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking soda

1 teaspoon baking powder

1/2 cup wheat germ

1 and 1/2 cups of dried cranberries

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F, line cookie sheet with parchment paper

Cream together the butter, brown sugar and white sugar (if using a mixer, mix on medium high).  Beat in the vanilla and eggs (on high).  Mix in sifted ingredients until just blended.  Stir in the chocolate chips by hand.

Sift together the flour, rolled oats, baking powder, baking soda, and wheat germ.  Add the dry ingredients to the butter mixture and mix on low for 10-15 seconds.  Stir in your cranberries.

Drop 1/4 cup of cookie dough onto cooke sheets about 4 inches apart.

Bake for 14-18 minutes or until the edges are lightly toasted.  Rotate rack half-way through for even baking.  Let it cool and store in air tight container for up to a week.

New {SALES} post: Where can I find Mansur Gavriel bags?

Just added this post to my {SALES} section so if you're interested, go check it out: Where can I buy Mansur Gavriel bags?

Just some late Thursday inspiration...

Images from here and here

Everlane V-neck, U-neck, Box Cut, and Drop Shoulder T-Shirt Reviews {updated May 2018}

Pictures from Everlane, compiled by me

Since people seemed to like my Everlane Petra Tote Review post, I thought I would review some of their clothes (especially to get an understanding on Everlane sizing).  I own a lot of clothes from Everlane.  I discovered Everlane about a year and a half ago and have been continually checking their site for new stuff ever since.  And that's because I think the quality of their clothes is pretty good for the price, but it depends on what you purchase.  Since their items are made at different factories, I think it's just natural that quality will vary a little, but they really do try their best to make it the best.  So below I've listed what I have, a quick note about quality, and what size I wear (I'm usually a size 4 or small on top, size 2 at places like GAP or sometimes Jcrew){note: I like my shirts on the looser side, so if you are fit and like them fitted I say go for an XXS when I say I got an XS}:

-I started my collection with the U-neck shirt (I was looking to find a cheaper alternative to the soft shirts from James Perse, Rag & Bone, splendid, etc.).  I usually buy it in an XS and even then it's a very loose fit (so I would say it runs a bit big), except in white where I bought a small since I like my white shirt to be loose since it's on the sheer side.  As for quality: as you can see in the top photo (the U neck is bottom right stack), the neck line does get stretched out a bit, but for $15 I don't mind too much.

-The V-neck shirts hold up quite a bit better, and are my favorite shirts from Everlane.  The V cut isn't too deep but just enough to be flattering.  Again I get XS, unless it's white which I get in S.  They are not as loose as the U-neck shirts.  I have a ton of these shirts, also priced at $15 (they used to have a lot of different colors, but right now they only have a muted black, white, and heather grey).  They're super soft and comfy.  Thought it's a bit hard to see, I'm wearing the heather grey one (the only one priced at $18) in the photo below with the Mansur Gavriel bag.

-The Box Cut Tee is my next favorite shirt.  Since I have a fairly long torso but short legs, I look better with tops that aren't too long.  And the box cut tee is the perfect length for the times I wear higher waisted jeans.  I wear XS for all the box cut tees.  Also these are the only shirts that I have with a higher neckline for those times when I want to be a bit more conservative (like when I'm in Japan).  The box cut tee holds it's structure the most since I think it's made with a  slightly thicker cotton than the other 2 styles.

-I only have one of the Cotton Drop Shoulder Tee, in muted black, which I haven't really worn that often.  But I do like the style of the longer sleeves, for those days when my triceps feel extra flabby.  Again the fit is on the loose side.

{I don't own any of the cotton slub or Ryan shirts because even though I like looser fits, I think those are just too loose and too big for my 5'4" frame.  It's just not the right proportions for me.  So I can't attest to their quality though I've read somewhere the Ryan tee, made of rayon, doesn't hold up so well in the wash (the rayon shrinks). Here are some reviews from other blogs/sites about the ryan tee, the ryan tank, the ryan tank dress (which IMHO is one of the least flattering dresses I've ever seen), and the cotton slub shirts.}

All of these cotton shirts are made in a factory in LA, and so the quality is consistently pretty good (except maybe for the U-neck).  And for $15 each (except for the heather grey color or the cotton drop shoulder tee), I love wearing these as my daily basic shirt.  Though Everlane values these shirts at a "Traditional Retail Price" of $45 (a common gripe I've seen on Reddit is that Everlane overvalues the traditional retail, which I tend to agree with), it's still a good value at $15.

When I wear these shirts I don't have to worry about spilling on myself, which I do fairly often (what can I say... I'm a messy eater).  But be aware, these are not James Perse or Rag & Bone quality tees (different weaves/textures and different cuts).  Yet these aren't your regular 'ole Hanes T shirts either.  They fit a space in between, and for me that space is the perfect daily tee.  

{If you enjoyed this post and feel like helping me out, this link to Everlane, is a referral and if you purchase anything will give me a $25 credit towards my next Everlane purchase/product to review.  Thank you so much!}

{Also here is a 2016 review of Everlane's new shirts: the Slim Crew shirt, the Muscle Tank, and the micro stripe shirts.}

{6.6.16 edit: It's almost been a year since I've purchased these tees and I've been wearing an Everlane tee almost daily.  I should note that the heather gray shirts are made from a different material than the other colors and so they will stretch out the most.  Also if you're looking for a tee that is a bit more polished, I would suggest not getting Everlane tees since the collars on these tees will wrinkle and twist so it doesn't lie flat.  Also the muted black shirt will fade a lot but the true black will hold it's color better.  I'm still a fan of these tees since I use them mostly as work shirts for the garage and so they'll get grease stains or other grime on it.  Plus these tees are really soft and comfy.}

{2.28.17 edit: So thought I would update this post by saying I hardly ever wear Everlane tees anymore.  I've found that their quality just isn't that great after multiple washes and wear.  The gray tees are all super stretched out (which now at least make great PJ tops), the box cut tees shrank a bit and they're too short now, and I got a bunch of holes in my white shirts that got big fast.  Also a lot of the shirts started to lose their softness.  Right now I'm basically wearing Grana tees daily and find that their pima tees are thicker and hold up much better with repeated wear and washes.  Just wanted to give my honest opinion since it's really changed in the last 6 months!}

{May 2018 Update: So I'm back to wearing Everlane tees, especially their cotton crew.  Some of their tees have definitely been redesigned since this review 3 years ago.  I'll be doing an update review soon, but just wanted to let y'all know that my current favorite is their cotton crew tee.  Also I would advise getting any color in Everlane's tees except for their black.  I think something in their dye makes the tee less soft with repeated washings, and they start picking up dog hair like crazy.  At first I thought it might be because dog hair it more noticable on black but I found the same doesn't happen to my Everlane crew tee in olive (and that's a pretty dark color).}

{Also I just wrote this update about all my ethical black tees if you’re interested in how they’ve all held up!}

TV Show to watch: The Crimson Field

Having Downton Abbey withdrawals during their off season?  Well I just found a pretty good remedy: The Crimson Field on PBS.  It's Downton Abbey meets Grey's Anatomy.  We follow the stories of nurses, volunteers, doctors and soldiers at a Red Cross field hospital in France, based loosely on real stories from WWI.

But what do I really watch it for?  The good-looking actors: the 2 main characters who of course are going to fall in love (we're not there yet but we know it's gonna happen) definitely have chemistry.  The female main character, above, looks a bit like Jennifer Love Hewitt and, fun fact, she is the granddaughter of Charlie Chaplin.  And the male main character, played by Richard Rankin, is the new Dr. McDreamy.   

Tomorrow I'll be back with some new Everlane reviews so hasta mañana!

TGIF Drinks: Watermelon Mojito

This is the perfect drink for your upcoming 4th of July festivities!  It's so easy, requires no prep work, and nothing tastes more like summer than watermelon!  All you need is a watermelon (definitely go with seedless), mint, lime, club soda and rum.  Take about a cup of watermelon, muddle with a couple leaves of mint, and a wedge of lime in a shaker.  Shake with some ice, pour into a glass, and add about a shot (or two) of rum and club soda to taste.  If you're making a big batch of this I would say go ahead and blend up the watermelon to make it even easier for yourself.  

Hope you all have a safe and fun 4th of July weekend!

La La La Las Vegas!

This past weekend, Brian and I went on a quick weekend trip to Vegas, the adult Disneyland, and we had a stupendously awesome time.  Now I get it, Vegas is not for everyone.  And I'm not a big gambler myself but I still love Las Vegas.  There's always something new to do, even if you go several times a year like I do.  Also I'm from Hawaii, so the love of Vegas is in my blood.  

We left on one of the few clear summer days in SF.  You can see Twin Peaks, Golden Gate Park, and the Presidio.  Sorry for the poor quality but all these pictures are iPhone photos.

We stayed at the Nobu Hotel in Caesar's Palace.  This hotel was amazing!!  It's a boutique hotel within Caesar's and run separately from the rest of the hotel.  So you get the special attention to detail that comes with a boutique hotel, but the location within Caesar's that can't be beat.  This meant no lines for checking-in and checking-out, but with the Forum Shops and all the convenience of Caesar's at your fingertips.

Our first stop was Shake Shack (located in NY NY, of course), which opened in December in Vegas.  My former co-worker who frequently went to NYC would always rave about these burgers, and I had the chance to try it once 5 years ago in Washington DC.  And yes, it's delicious!  So when I knew Shake Shack had opened its doors in Vegas at the end of last year, I had to go!  And it was as yummy as I had remembered.  The thing to get is the Shack Stack.  It has a fried portobello mushroom, with their signature Shake Shack sauce inside. Just thinking about it again is making my mouth water...

At night, we tried another new Vegas establishment, the Omnia nightclub in Caesar's.  And it did not disappoint.  The picture above is from the outdoor terrace at Omnia (which had it's own DJ who spun mostly lounge-y electronic music).  The club also had a relatively large hip-hop room.  And the main part of the club (picture below) had a large dance floor and a terrace that ran all around it.  It came complete with a high tech revolving chandelier (not pictured, sorry), and Cirque-du-Soleil-like acts.  Martin Garrix (of "Animals" fame) was the headliner the night we were there.

I like how the guy is reaching up as if she would grab his hand.  She's not gonna touch you bro...

The next day we walked around a bit, gambled a bit, and shopped a bit.  Below is Bellagio's summer display, cute but a bit underwhelming.  I think they do the winter season displays the best.

I also treated myself to a massage and a couple hours at Caesar's Qua Spa.  And it was wonderful!  I remembered their spa was once rated the best in Vegas, so I thought I would give it a try while my husband gambled.  And it was so worth it.  I think it really was the one of the best spas I've ever tried.  You can't take pictures once you get into the spa (because it's clothing optional), so the pictures below are just the entrance.  {Note: for the 18% of males that read my blog (thanks Google Analytics), no it's not a hot mess of naked women.  The only naked ones are the old ones, of course}.  

The spa came complete with Roman Baths (3 pools of different temperatures), a robe sauna (so you can have heated robes while you are in the baths), heated stone chairs (perfect for naps) a very large stone hot tub, a cedar sauna (it smelled amazing), an herbal steam room (with the most intense steam I've ever experienced), and an "arctic room" so you can cool off.  The deep tissue massage was also one of the best I've experienced (ask for Ninnette).  I can't wait to go back again!

Other recommendations for Vegas:

{Stay}

The Nobu Hotel: my new #1 favorite 

Palazzo: If you're with a large group, the Palazzo is one of my favorites because all their rooms have a sunken living room with extra space.

The Wynn and Venetian: The other hotels I've tried, which are fine (but for pretty much the same price, go to the Nobu Hotel!)

{Eat}

Shake Shack 

Bouchon: in the Venetian and it's great for brunch

Delmonico Steakhouse or Carnevino: both are great steakhouses.  Tasty and good service.

Lotus of Siam (off the strip): THE BEST THAI FOOD I'VE EVER HAD.  If you have the chance go there and get the prawns.  MIND-BLOWING!

{And NEVER go to any of Joel Robuchon's restaurants in the MGM.  He should be ashamed at the quality of food and service at those restaurants, and his main, expensive restaurant Joel Robuchon should be stripped of all Michelin stars.  It was awful service and mediocre food at ridiculous prices.}

{Do}

Qua Spa at Caesar's: If you're staying at Caesar's (or Nobu) it's only $25 to use their spa pools and steam/sauna/arctic rooms.  Might just be the best deal in town.  If you purchase a massage, then the use of the spa is free.

My favorite nightclubs: Omnia and XS (in the Wynn).  My not-so-favorites are the Marquee (at the Cosmo, get ready to walk up and walk down some major steps in heels ladies) and Hakkasan (at the MGM, super cramped, and poor layout).

Shop at the Forum shops (they range from high-end luxury to an towering 3-storied H&M), the Palazzo (which has Barneys, ok I'm biased about this one), the Fashion Show Mall (though this is like very other mall in America), and the outlets (going to need to catch a taxi for this one).

Downtown Vegas: cheap tables and the Beef Jerky store (for those from Hawaii but don't live in Hawaii who want local snacks).  I've also heard that Zappos founder Tony Hsieh has revitalized the area for a more hipster appeal, but I have yet to check it out myself (something to do for the next time I come to Vegas).

Aesop's Fable: Aesop Beauty Products Review

Do you remember any of Aesop's fables?  I had a whole book of them and I used to love those stories (all with their self-righteous morals at the end of them).  The only ones I can really remember are the "Boy Who Cried Wolf" (the most famous one) and the "Fox and the Grapes" (a lesser known fable about a fox who try as he might can't reach the hanging grapes and so storms off saying he didn't want them anyway...or something like that).  Why I remember that latter fable is beyond me, but psychoanalyze that how you will.

Well the point is, Aesop of the renowned fables was good at telling stories, much like Aesop, the beauty brand does today.  Their stores are beyond gorgeous with a pleasing rustic look and uniformity to them all.  Those brown bottles are inexplicably appealing and even the linen shopping pouch they give with their products, though inconvenient to carry on its own, is adorable in its fake science-y way.  And like many people I was suckered in by their branding and marketing.  The look of the store draws you in, and if you're lucky and the store is empty, you might get a hand wash/massage with their products from a friendly sale associate who isn't creepy.  But take the products home and what do you get?  Some really overpriced so-so items in beautiful bottles.  

Beauty products are hard to rate, since they affect people differently.  So please take what I say with a grain of salt.  But to me, Aesop products are a total dud.  I bought the Chamomile Concentrate Anti-Blemish Masque, Control (another zit med), the Nurturing Shampoo, and the Classic Conditioner.  A quick rundown of the products:  Both anti-zit meds did nothing for my breakouts and in fact just irritated my skin (And a quick look at beautpedia, a good resource for skin products, tells me why.  There's irritants in them both and nothing that actually prevents or treats zits) .  The shampoo and conditioner just made my hair super flat (though very soft).  The hair products weren't bad but definitely not worth the $49 I paid for each (I know I'm crazy for buying them, but I blame it on vacation brain.  I bought them in Portland when we were on our airstream road trip).  Though the products seem natural (maybe its their aesthetic?) they're not at all.  Nor do they try to be.  Which is fine, but for a non-natural product Neutrogena works two times better at half the price.  So I suggest saving your money and resisting the well-marketed temptations of this store.  But hey at least the bottles photographed nicely (and would look beautiful in a fancy bathroom...if I had a fancy bathroom).

Monday Muse: Daniel Pink on Motivation

Side note: these are some of my current creative projects: weaving and Zen tangles

"Routine work can be outsourced or automated; artistic, empathic, nonroutine work generally cannot.  The implications for motivation are vast.  Researchers…have found that external rewards and punishments—both carrots and sticks—can work nicely for algorithmic tasks.  But they can be devastating for heuristic ones.  Those sorts of challenges—solving novel problems or creating something the world didn’t know it was missing—depend heavily on Harlow’s third drive…Intrinsic motivation is conducive to creativity; controlling extrinsic motivation is detrimental to creativity."

-Drive by Daniel Pink

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

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TGIF Drinks: Roasted Sesame Seed Infused Whisky

When you're flying United Airlines, do you pick up their inflight magazine that's tucked behind the barf bag and the safety instructions in the seat pocket in front of you? I usually don't.  But during my long flight back from Japan, I ran out of reading material, and so I read the May Hemispheres Magazine from front to back for the first time ever.  And I have to say, it's not a bad magazine.  They did a feature on Japanese whiskys and had a special recipe for a Roasted Sesame Seed Infused Whisky.  The recipe called for a specific whisky called Nikka Coffey Grain Whisky.  And though it's misleading, the whisky is not coffee flavored.  It's named that because they use a Coffey still imported from Scotland.  By itself this is whisky is pretty smooth (well ok, moment of honesty here, I'm not really a discerning whiskey drinker.  I only like whisky if it doesn't burn as it goes down the hatchet.  Lame, I know, but I'm working on it).  I didn't think I would find this Japanese brand whisky but the following week I just happened to pass a store called Epicurean Trader, in Bernal Heights, and they had it!  

If you live in the SF Bay Area, you need to visit this shop!  I think I already mentioned it once before, but this place is amazing.  It's all small batch artisanal food, carefully selected by an Australian couple.  And they have great taste!  Well when I found the Nikka Whisky there, I knew I needed to try the sesame seed infusion.

Sesame Whiskey recipe:

-4 cups Nikka Coffey Grain Whisky or any other whiskey you prefer

-1 cup white sesame seeds (ratio of spirits to sesame seeds can be changed according to aroma preference but 4:1 usually yields a pretty strong infusion)

Preheat a large frying pan over low heat and roast sesame seeds until golden brown (or until they glisten and start popping), about 2-3 minutes.  After roasting, let sesame seeds cool on a baking sheet.  Let it infuse overnight (or longer).  Once you get the desired flavor, strain through a fine mesh.  If you want a clearer whiskey then strain through a coffee filter.

Now just add some ice, or whiskey stones, sip and enjoy!  The sesame seeds adds an earthy flavor to the whiskey (and it still doesn't burn as it goes down).  So drink up and relax, the weekend is just starting!

Cooking with Chef Ryan: Porridge Pancakes and Paprika Sausage

One of the best things of having a chef as a good friend is that they don't mind cooking for you, even if that's their day job.  And they make delicious meals seem really fast, easy and simple.  My friend Ryan whipped up this brunch for us the other day of porridge pancakes with nectarine and sausage with herbs and smoked paprika (recipe below).

By the way this is Gibson, our friendly neighborhood kitchen stalker, peacefully waiting for anything that might fall on the floor.

For the sausage patties:

We used about 3/4 pounds of ground pork, 1 clove of garlic minced, salt and pepper, about 2 tsp of smoke paprika, fresh herbs (or you can use dried herbs but use a bit less) of sage, thyme, and rosemary of about 1 tsp total, and 1 tsp of brown sugar.

Mix all together and roll into small patties.  Heat oil in pan at about medium heat and cook until browned.

For the Porridge Pancake (This is adapted from a recipe found here)

Take yesterday's leftover hot cereal/oatmeal that's been refrigerated (probably works best with multigrain and thicker hot cereal mixtures as opposed to instant Quakers oatmeal).  Much like the sausage, flatten chunks into patties.  Lightly flour on both sides, heat some butter in the pan and cook for a few minutes on each side.  If you want it to be more like your usual pancake (i.e. a soupier batter), add the porridge to a bit of batter of flour and milk/yogurt.  Cook until golden brown on each side.

For the nectarine compote:

3-4 ripe nectarines pitted and sliced, about 1/4 cup brown sugar, 1/2 cup of water.   Mix the sugar and water together and heat until it starts to thicken.  Add the nectarine slices and cook for 3-4 minutes.  You don't want to cook it for too long since it's nice to for the nectarines to have a bit of a crunch (it goes well with the softer porridge pancake).

Now just add a bowl of fruit and/or some mimosas and you got yourself a good brunch!

Monday Muse: Peter Thiel on School

Photos from here

"More than anything else, competition is an ideology--the ideology-- that pervades our society and distorts our thinking. We preach competition, internalize it's necessity, and enact it's commandments; and as a result, we trap ourselves within it--even though the more we compete, the less we gain. This is a simple truth, but we've all been trained to ignore it. Our educational system both drives and reflects our obsession with competition. Grades themselves allow precise measurement of each student's competitiveness; pupils with the highest marks receive status and credentials. We teach every young person the same subjects in mostly the same ways, irrespective of individual talents and preferences. Students who don't learn best by sitting still at a desk are made to feel somehow inferior, while students who excel on conventional measures like tests and a assignments end up defining their identities in terms of this weirdly contrived academic parallel reality. And it gets worse as students ascend to higher levels of the tournament. Elite students climb confidently until they reach a level of competition sufficiently intense to beat their dreams out of them... For the privilege of being turned into conformists, students (or their families) pay hundreds of thousands of dollars in skyrocketing tuition that continues to outpace inflation. Why are we doing this to ourselves?"

Zero to One: Notes on Start Ups, or How to Build the Future

By Peter Thiel, Blake Masters

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Everlane Petra Magazine Tote Review

When I was looking to buy this tote from Everlane, I searched the internet for product reviews but wasn't able to find many.  At least not for the Magazine tote in Gesso.  Everlane has three sizes for the Petra tote, and the Magazine size is the smallest.  But that doesn't mean it's small.  This tote fits a ton of things including my laptop, books, and all other things I need to carry, and I never once wished I had purchased the bigger size.  Gesso means "chalk" in Italian (the bag is made in Italy), and though it's more of a gray than a chalky color, I would say that's a good thing.  Here are all the other reasons why I LOVE this bag:

-Really thick and durable leather.  NO COLOR TRANSFER from jeans.  (This is a miracle for any lightly coloured bag.)

-The perfect size to fit a laptop and a textbook, along with your wallet, phone, keys and other necessities.  The bottom is reinforced with stitching inside and little legs on the outside so this bag can definitely handle heavy loads.

-Two very deep pockets with a snap closure on the inside so nothing falls out of these pocket.  I put my keys wallets, mints and all other small things in here and they don't fall out.

-Stain and smell resistant interior.  I'm taking a UC Berkley extension class (yay for continuing education) and on the second day I put a kombucha drink in the bag.  By the time I got to class I saw that the pink raspberry kombucha had leaked all over the inside of the bag.  If you have ever had kombucha, you know that it stinks!  (It's basically fermented tea).  So I was worried my tote would smell like kombucha forever, but I just wiped it up and the smell and stains were gone!  And it never stained to the outside of the bag.  

This bag isn't cheap but for the quality, good durable leather, I would say this bag is well worth the price and Everlane delivers on their promise of high-quality goods at decent prices.  This is probably the best light colored bag I've ever had and it's the perfect cool-toned neutral bag for the summer!

You can find the bag here and it comes in bright navy and black.  [This is not a sponsored post, though I wish it was.  I just wrote this because I really do love this bag!].

{edit: I just found out the straps are adjustable.  Just another reason to love this bag!}

How to adjust the straps

Also here's a look at the inside pockets.  The front and back sides are covered by another leather layer that the pockets are stitched onto, but the sides are suede (and did you see?  No kombucha stains, even on the suede.  I think it's because it's not a soft absorbent suede, it's a thicker semi-water repellant suede type material).

Alt Summer 2015

So what is the Alt Summit?  In their own words: "The Altitude Summit is the premier business conference for pioneering and rookie bloggers and creatives in this space. It's a community of exciting, experimental and expressive thinkers, makers and entrepreneurs."

I would say that anyone who is interested in blogging, any other kind of creative career, or owns a small business would really enjoy this conference.  It was great being with women who are trying new things in the creative world.  I met illustrators, store owners, baby clothing producers, and bloggers of all kinds.

The conference was held in Salt Lake City, Utah, at the Grand America Hotel.  

Candice from Handmade Mood

One of my favorite bloggers, Nicole, from Making It Lovely

I got to meet some of my favorite bloggers and it's nice to know they are as nice in person as they are in real life.  Here's a list of some of the seminars offered (I was only able to go to a third of them since they had three in each time slot):

-Tuesday: How to Write a Brand Deck; Blogging with Bracery; Finding your Special Sparkle; Pick Yourself

-Wednesday: Community Building; How to Successfully Pitch Content to Magazines and Television Shows; Launching a Product; Instagram: Grow your following; 5 Surefire Strategies to Exponentially Monetize Traffic; The Book Panel; How to Create an Online Course; Photoshop & Branding for Bloggers; Photography for Non Photographers

-Thursday: Taming the To-Do List; Adobe Illustrator 101; Photoshoot: from Concept to Styling to Shooting to Editing to Posting; Going from Blog to Brand; Everything you need to know to become a YouTube Star; Diversity in the Design & Lifestyle Blogging/Social Media World; Driving Traffic to your site: Pinterest & Facebook; Know your Google Analytics & Social Media Stats; Self-Management: Productivity, Energy & Work-Life Balance; Developing & Positioning your brand; Set Goals for your Business; Creative Collaboration

The closing keynote speaker was Guy Kawasaki, who I ever heard of before but apparently wrote this book:

The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users

For the whole speech and even afterwards I thought it was Robert Kiyosaki of Rich Dad, Poor Dad book fame.  Nope, they're completely different people, just in case you were thinking the same thing.

So my final thought about this conference is this:  It was awesome and I'm going again in the winter!

Monday Muse: Ariana Huffington on Wisdom

I'm convinced of two fundamental truths about human beings. The first is that we all have within us a centred place of wisdom, harmony and strength. this is the truth that all the world's philosophies and religions whether Christianity, Islam, Judiasm or Buddhism aknowledge in one form or another: the kingdom of God is within you or as Archimedes said give me a place to stand and I will move the world. 

The second truth is that we are all going to veer away from that place again and again and again.  That's the nature of life. In fact we maybe off course more often than we are on course. The question is how quickly can we get back to that centred place of wisdom harmony and strength. It's in this sacred place that life is transformed from struggle to grace and we are suddenly filled with trust, whatever obstacles challenges or disappointments. 

-Ariana Huffington, Thrive

If you want to read the whole book, you can find it here (link to Amazon below):

Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder

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5 Things Friday

1) I am so proud of my friends Justin and David for making their first production of Downey Brewing Co's 80 IPA.  The beer was a really tasty classic IPA with just the right amount of hoppiness.  I can honestly say it is one of the best IPA's I've had in awhile.  And look at the beautiful label!  I can't wait to taste what these guys produce next!

2) I've started a new page on Temporary Housewifey!  It's a bags picture gallery.  Most of these pictures are already posted on Instagram but I thought it would be nice to have a space for them on my blog too.  I also have a travel picture gallery, which used to just be labeled images.  And did you guys notice I've changed the template so now I have a search function and an archives section on the right (it's below the posts when viewing in mobile).  Excited for all these changes and some new stuff coming to the blog soon!

3) And a large part of that is because of the Alt summit, which I attended Wednesday and Thursday this past week in Salt Lake City, Utah.  I'll write more about it in another post, but let me just say that if you are a blogger, small business owner, crafter, designer, etc. this conference is a necessity!  What I learned in 2 days here probably would have taken me months to learn on my own.

4) This is probably already old news for most of you, but I just saw this yesterday and I loved it.  I still get them mixed up (and even had a hard time figuring out who was who in the video below):

5) Currently on repeat:

Hope you all have a good weekend! 

Temporary Housewifey's Travel Guide and Travel Tips for Kyoto

So this is my last post about Japan, I promise, for those of you who are getting sick about me going on and on about a trip I came back from 2 weeks ago.  Because of the wonder of scheduled posting, as you read this I am actually in Salt Lake City, UT, at the Alt Summit (a blogger conference).  And then I'm on to LA so now I can go on and on about those trips next.  Anyway back to Japan.  Here is just a short summary of the things I recommend for anyone visiting Kyoto:

Stay:

I prefer the Hyatt Regency Kyoto because it's a beautiful place that really embodies the peace and sophistication of Kyoto.  It's located in a quiet part of town but there's still attractions right next door, Sanjusangendo (temple of 1000 Buddhas) and the Kyoto National Museum (where you can go to the museum cafe for breakfast at 9:15AM).  They also have a buffet breakfast that's pretty good, and if you have jet-lag I recommend just getting up, instead of tossing and turning in bed, and go to the breakfast early (like 6:30AM).  Then you might get window seat that looks down on their Zen garden.  It's worth it.  But if the Hyatt is not available, I would try any of the hotels around Kyoto station.  Kyoto Station is really the hub of Kyoto and you can really get anywhere from there whether by train or bus.  Plus there's lots of shops and restaurants there.

Shop:

-Walk around the Gion district and you might catch a glimpse of a geisha.  Also there's some cute stores and very old traditional Japanese houses there.

-For some more modern shopping, you can go to Shijo-dori.  It kind of feels like Tokyo shopping so if you don't care for crowds I would recommend shopping at:

-Kyoto Station underground.  Kyoto Station is huge with both an older and newer section and it's very easy to get lost (we did), so just be careful of the signs.  There are modern department stores as well as a lot of cute Japanese boutiques.

Some of the things I bought (not all bought in Kyoto but most of it was):

Top picture: bamboo grater brush (to get all those small bits of garlic, ginger, or daikon off your grater), bamboo tongs, Laduree macaroons (from Ginza, not Kyoto), fake lashes (I think Japanese brands are some of the best ones), prayer bead bracelet, little monk head dish, Comme de Garcons clover pouch, wooden animal spoons, Murakami can of candy, coffee scooper in the shape of a house, bamboo butter knife, and tape hook, a plastic hook that looks like a peeling piece of tape (I'm using one now and it's pretty cute).

Botton picture: Kyoto's special mochi dessert, wasabi doritos (they were yummy), my favorite brand of mints (they're small but powerful in a really easy to carry case), senbei from Fushimi Inari, spicy Kit Kats (they use togarashi, or Japanese chili pepper), and shrimp crackers.  

To do:

There are so many things to do/places to see in Kyoto.  This is just a short list but it's a good place to start.

- Fushimi Inari: If you can only go to one place, then I would say this is a must see.  This is the place with all the orange/red gates (cover photo, Kyoto Day 3).

- Kinkakuji: The golden pavilion (Kyoto Day 2)

-Ryo-an ji: The epitome of a Japanese rock garden (Kyoto Day 2)

-Sanjusangendo: Temple of 1000 Buddhas

-Kiyomuzu-dera: A beautiful large temple on the mountain built around a waterfall.  The waters are supposed to impart long-life and good luck if you drink it.  The last time I was in Kyoto, with Brian, we were there at the same time as a large tour group of Chinese tourists.  They were holding up the line to the waterfall because they were trying to bottle this stuff, as in squat on the floor as they tried to fill multiple small plastic bottles with an unwieldy water ladle.  Free souvenirs, I guess?

-Ginkakuji: Named the silver temple, but it's not.  I've never been there but I've heard people say it's pretty nice.

- Kyoto National Museum (pictured below): They have a great collection of ancient Japanese art, from Buddhist statues, to past Emperors' calligraphy scrolls, kimonos and Japanese ink paintings and it's all housed in their new modern and simple building.  They also still have exhibits in their original 1895 building (done in a very European style) if you're lucky enough to catch them.

-The Miho Museum: This is something I learned about after I came back so I never got a chance to go, but this will be #1 on my list of things to go to when I come back to Kyoto.  Thanks to my friend Colleen for the recommendation!

-Other museums/places that look interesting: Kyoto International Manga Museum (if you're into manga), Toei Uzumasa Eigamura (film set for traditional Japanese TV shows), and the Museum of Modern Art, Kyoto.  These are all places I haven't yet been to, but might check out on my next trip.

The Kyoto National Museum with the modern building on the left and the original on the right.

To Eat:

I don't really have any food recommendations since I just mostly ate when and where it was convenient (and most of the time you can't really go wrong no matter which restaurant you pick).  But I would recommend:

-Dining al fresco at one of the many restaurants that line the Kamo river (Kamogawa) [talked about in Kyoto Day 1].  The view is beautiful and it was fun dining on traditional Japanese food Japanese style (aka on the floor) though you do have to constantly readjust so your legs don't fall asleep (picture above).

-Eating from the vendors outside of Fushimi Inari (great Japanese snack foods) and don't forget to get some senbei at the store near the train station (Kyoto Day 3)

Well that was a super long post but I hope anyone going to Kyoto in the future will find these tips useful!

Monday Muse: Amy Poehler on Career

I guess the Buddhists would call this idea healthy detachment.  Too often we are told to visualize what we want and cut out pictures of it and repeat it like a mantra over and over again....I am introducing a new idea.  Try to care less.  Practice ambivalence.  Learn to let go of wanting it.  Treat your career like a bad boyfriend.  Here's the thing.  Your career won't take care of you.  It won't call you back or introduce you to its parents.  Your career will forget your birthday and wreck your car.  Your career will never marry you.  Now, before I extend this metaphor, let me make a distinction between career and creativity.  Creativity is connected to your passion, that light inside you that drives you.  That joy that comes when you do something you love.  That small voice that tells you, 'I like this.  Do this again.  You are good at it.  Keep going.'  That's the stuff that lubricates our lives and helps us feel less alone in the world.  Your creativity is not a bad boyfriend.  Career is different.  Career is the stringing together of opportunities and jobs.  Mix in public opinion and past regrets.  Add a dash of future panic and a whole lot of financial uncertainty.  Career is something that fools you into thinking you are in control and then takes pleasure in reminding you that you aren't.  Career is the thing that will not fill you up and never make you truly whole....Ambivalence is the key to success.  You have to care about your work, but not about the result.  You have to care about how good you are and how good you feel, but not about how good people think you are or how good people think you look.

Yes Please

By Amy Poehler

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Where to eat: Japan Edition

One of the main reasons to go to Japan is to eat all the delicious food!  And you can never really go too wrong at most places in Japan since Japanese customers demand delicious foods.  I feel like the Japanese were the first real foodies, way before the US got on that bandwagon.  

This first restaurant I went to was near our hotel, the Niwa Hotel in the Kanda district.  My mom and I were watching a local Tokyo news segment when they coincidentally went around the Kanda district.  It featured this tempura place, which has been around for over 80 years.  The Kanda district was one of the few districts left undamaged after World War II and so there's a lot of great old restaurants and shops (see my post on the area around the Niwa Hotel).

I got the osusume (or the recommended dish) which was the tempura don (rice dish) with eel tempura.

We sat at the counter and chatted with the chef who is a big fan of Hawaii, a 7-time Hawaii marathon finisher (the guy on the left), and an avid fan of Jake Shimabukuro.

That's the storefront.

Can't go to Japan without some ramen.  The best ramen I've had was this place in Shibuya, right next to Tokyu Hands (not pictured above).  It was filled with business men and construction workers (and zero women--it was one of those loud and rough lunch spots meant for a good quick meal, not a place for housewives to luncheon).  But that pic above is not from that place.  This is a ramen shop where housewives do luncheon, on the top floor of the Omotesando Hills mall.  It's called Ramen Zero for the supposed zero additives to the broth, but that also meant almost zero taste.  The noodles were good but I wouldn't recommend this place.  Go to Shibuya!

Sushi at a spot in Ginza.  It was alright, but to get the good stuff you might as well go to Tsukiji (it's nearby).

Every since I was a kid one of my favorite things about Japan is their dessert, from shaved ice to parfaits.  Before I would get the chocolate parfaits but now I almost always go for the matcha (green tea) flavors since you really can't get it better anywhere else.  

Shabu Shabu (hot pot Japanese style) was delicious (though not cheap, but it's worth trying).

This is in Kyoto, along the Kama River.  Nothing beats drinking and eating small plates of traditional Japanese food, alongside a river.  And the weather was perfect!

The dish above was roasted traditional Kyoto eggplant (which grows in a spherical shape, not the usually oblong shape), topped with miso and bits of ground beef.

Yaki onigiri

Salt chicken.  This dish was amazing!  The skin was super crispy while the inside was super moist. And not too salty either so you could really taste the chicken.  Best chicken I've had in years.

And some warabi mochi for dessert.

Another day, another dish of mochi.  This was inside the Kyoto Station, on the newly built side.  It's another ramen shop, but since it was hot we decided to get cold ramen noodles.

It was delicious!

They show the mochi cooking in the restaurant storefront.

Another day, and yet another mochi dish.  This one is also grilled but lightly covered in a sweet miso-like dressing. And this stand, along with numerous other food stands can be found in front of the Fushimi Inari temple in Kyoto (just wrote about this earlier this week).

We also had some fried chicken (so good!!!!).  Perfectly moist, crispy, and not overly doughy.

I had this matcha float perfection at the cafe in front of the Kyoto National Museum.  We stayed at the Hyatt Regency Kyoto (highly recommend it!) and the museum is right across the street.  We went there for a late breakfast (it opens at 9:15AM) and its the perfect spot to eat outdoors and look at the museum grounds.  It's just as good, if not better than the breakfast buffet in the hotel.

And my last meal out in Japan was at Tsukiji market, which is a MUST-GO for anyone visiting Tokyo.  The actual fish market will be closing down this year to make space for the Olympic Village for the 2020 Tokyo Olympics.  But rest assured all the outside stalls of food and shops will remain.  For now, you can still get a bowl of super  fresh raw fish, shrimp, and sea urchin for a pretty good deal (this is the kaizen bowl).  They have several of these stalls and they're all the same company so you can't miss it!!