Everlane Review Cotton Long Sleeve Crew, 2018 released cotton sweater

I wanted to write a second post on Everlane's long sleeve crew because after my first review here I ordered this sweater again (in stripes this time) after waiting almost 6 months.  And I feel like they are 2 totally different sweaters.  See what I mean:

First purchase (pink sweater) on top and the new purchase on the bottom, both smalls.  Also I did dry clean the pink sweater once so I'm pretty sure it's not a matter of shrinkage from washing.  I actually prefer the fit of the newest batch since the first one was too cropped for me (and I kept flashing my midriff to people).  The newest version is larger all around and slightly wider too (and more like Everlane's favorite square style).  

The first run production have white labels while the second run production (with the bigger fit) has large gray tags.

{Wearing: Everlane long sleeve crew, Frame denim (similar here), Everlane Street Sandals}

Also I noticed that from the get-go I didn't have any problems with loose threads on this striped cotton sweater.  So overall I'm loving Everlane's cotton sweater more than ever.  Now if the weather would just cooperate and get warmer so that I can wear it more often.

Did anyone else try Everlane's long sleeve crew?  The first or second production run and what did you think?

Unsponsored Jamie + the Jones Review: the Heavy Weight T Sweater {Updated April 2018}

Hi guys and here's the review some of you had been asking for: Jamie + the Jones Heavy Weight T sweater.  I had heard of J+J for a long time but since I was on my fashion ban last year I didn't buy anything from them.  And so when they had their 20% off b-day sale, I jumped at the chance.  I purchased this sweater as well as the Blank Canvas top in raw silk.

So first of all I love that the yarn for this sweater was spun in North Carolina and the 100% cotton fabric is woven in Chicago, IL, then finally made to order in Nashville.  Way to go for 100% American made, which is so rare these days I feel like it needs to be especially celebrated.  

Now onto the actual review.  So I will say from the start I have very mixed feelings about this sweater and you're going to see why in a sec.  But the main points boil down to: I love the texture and the uniqueness of this sweater but I hate the weight.  And a note on sizing, I ordered the sweater in a small (I'm usually a size 4 on top).

When I first put on the sweater I felt like I was wearing either a knit kitchen rug or some kind of upholstery fabric.  I think it's mostly because of the weave of the fabric, it's a very tight knit and heavy.  Also the material is quite stiff and not soft and fluffy as you would expect a sweater to be.  But then again it's great at holding it's shape.  

{Wearing: J+J heavy weight T sweater, Elizabeth Suzann canvas clydes (reviewed here), Everlane modern loafer mules (reviewed here), Celine small Cabas phantom (similar here)

Once I got used to the stiffness and the weight I sometimes felt like I was Sandra Bullock wearing one of those oversized 90's sweaters in While You Were Sleeping (one of my all-time fave movies).  Cute, but casual chic.

I also like that this sweater is machine washable so I don't have to spend money at the dry cleaners.

But here are some of the cons of this sweater:

- Because of the stiffness of the sweater, the collar props up and sometimes touches my jawline area and I get make-up on the collar.  Because of this I only wear this sweater on days where I know I'll mostly be sitting around (and not days where I'm working on Airstream stuff).  When I raise my arms, not only does my collar get makeup on it but you can see my midriff.

- The bulk of the sweater makes it hard to layer under jackets.

- This is a slightly cropped sweater and I'm not a fan of how it makes my hips look so wide.  It's a combination of where the sweater ends on my frame (right at my widest point) and the fact that it holds is voluminous shape.

- Lastly but most important, the weight.  This sweater weighs 1 lb. 10 oz.  Compare that to my Everlane cotton sweater which weights 9.2 oz.  That's over a pound more weighing down my shoulders.  I already have a pretty bad posture with shoulders that slope down, so when I have such a heavy sweater on, I feel like my posture gets even worse. 

So in the end, as much as I wanted to love this sweater, I'm not sure it's for me.  I think first of all it would look better on a taller person (with better posture) like on Andrea (who's 5'8") and Lee (also tall though I don't know her height).  I think also by being tall, the sweater doesn't crop at their hips but rather above that. 

Also, I prefer to be efficient in my clothing.  I don't have a lot of space in my closet for a bulky cotton sweater that can't be layered under most of my jackets.  Also because it's a cotton sweater, it doesn't provide warmth like my cashmere ones.  So I don't know really.  I keep reaching for it and wearing it (partly to get my cost per wear down-currently it's at $49.60).  Well we'll see, I'll keep wearing it for now but I'm not sure if I'm going to keep it since I don't love love it.

{Update: So if you're confused about sizing (which I was), I got the definitive answer from Ashley at J+J.  So the length as well as the width changes with size (ie it's not just the length).  Here's the full run-down in her words:

As for how the sizing works on our sweaters, they do change measurements between sizes.  They are graded to scale to each size from the bust, to the sleeve opening, to the neckline.  Since they are a bit cropped, we find that some people do choose to size up for a bit more length.  However, I always advise people to stick somewhat close to their actual size, because the more you bump up in size, the more the fit is going to be slightly off in the other areas (neckline, sleeves, etc.).  I also know that some customers have chosen to take their sweaters to a tailor to have the hem let out and love the results!  That way they are keeping the width manageable and still getting that slightly longer length.   The only other thing I will mention is that the confusion with the sizing may have stemmed from people getting it mixed up with our T Top.  Our T Top, not our T Sweater, does not change in width.  That was one of our original pieces we started J+J with and at the time it was a one-size-fits-all top.  When we started expanding our sizes, we chose to keep that one as a hybrid of the one-size-fits-all fit that we loved, but we adjusted the sizing in the neckline, sleeve opening, and hem, to reflect the scale.

Hope that helps and if you have more questions about sizing, you can email support@jamieandthejones and they will know all the answers!}

{April 2018 update: In full transparency, I wanted to let you guys know I sold it.  I only wore it a handful of times and machine washed it twice.  But I just didn't feel like storing such a bulky sweater until it gets cold again, especially if I'm a bit iffy about it.  But I did sell it for a good price and only lost about $25 in trying this sweater out, so to me it was definitely worth it.  I think I might try one of their other sweaters this fall.}

The best and worst items I received free to review in 2017

Mott & Bow Jeans, part of the best list

So I'm sure I'm killing any future gifts from brands with this post, but since I decided that I won't be taking any free gifts for review this year (to minimize waste) I kind of don't care.  Of course I love free things, but if it's at the cost of what I stand by (brutally honest opinions and minimal waste) then I rather pay for the things I review and try to monetize elsewhere (which means if you're reading my posts on a phone or tablet, sorry those small pop-up Google ads are gonna continue for the time being).  Also just to note for this list I am not including things I got free from referral credit (that applies mostly to Everlane and Grana) because in a sense I "earned" those credits and I'm "spending" those credits (and they never asked for a review of their items).  The ones on the list here are the items I got completely free in exchange for a review from companies that contacted me directly out-of-the-blue.

The Best

1) Mott & Bow Jeans: My love for these 98% cotton, 2% elastane jeans are still going strong!  I received these for review at the end of June last year and they are still in my jeans rotation.  In fact I prefer them over the Everlane jeans I've reviewed thus far (including the modern boyfriend and the skinny jeans) because the Mott & Bow ones are just more comfortable for me (I think it has to do with the M&B ones being more mid-rise and not high-rise). The slim boyfriend style of these jeans work well with my pear-shape (especially my thicker thighs).  These jeans are in heavy rotation with my other two Frame denim jeans.

2) Tradlands The Skipper Shirt: I love this really soft button-up and it's my go-to shirt for whenever I go to lu'aus or Hawaiian get-togethers (which is more often than you think since I'm from Honolulu).  It's my mainland version of the Aloha shirt.

3) Chamberlains' leather milk: One of my first collaborations and one that was extremely useful since I still use all these products to protect and condition my leather shoes and bags.  This collab probably worked so well since I had already done an initial review of their product and that's how they found me.  I'm a big believer in their products, especially if you want to cherish and take care of your expensive leather items.

The Worst

1 and 2) Siizu V-neck tee and Siizu Hella Top: I initially liked both items (maybe because they were free?) but soon found that I never reached for them.  The v-neck tee made of 100% modal, was not a fave since I preferred my 100% cotton tees from Everlane and Grana.  The Hella Top was cute but didn't fit into my super casual, non-office lifestyle.  I also don't think frilly items fall under my style.

3) Tradlands Faroe Tee:  Sorry to say that when it came to this specific item from Tradlands, it was kind of a dud.  After I washed it, it was super stiff and uncomfortable.  When it comes to linen I would go with Elizabeth Suzann, Everlane or Grana.

Also a note on Grana since I received the most free items from them to review: I think Grana is always a mixed bag with lots of really good things.  Since I was simultaneously getting free things from them as well as buying things with credits earned, I ended up with way more Grana pieces than I anticipated or needed, some of which I'm letting go here.

So yep, once this post is up I'll revise all the above reviews to include this post so that people know how these free items fared in my closet rotation.  Also since I'm being completely honest here, it can be tough at times to write anything negative about items given free to review since there are usually representatives of the company checking on your reviews and making sure you post to Insta.  To me, that already feels restrictive even if the brand never tells you 'you can't say that'.  I rather be pressure-free to say whatever I feel like (and I don't mind giving my money to brands that really deserve it)!

P.S. After writing this post, I read this one from EcoCult and I'm surprised to learn that bloggers will recommend items without having tried it themselves.  Also for them to review and post something, EcoCult charges $400 (which makes me think, how can you say anything bad about a product if you're getting paid $400?).  It's making me realize if I want to keep my blog the way it's going (only providing unbiased reviews with items I've tried myself), I'm going to have to keep my day job (or drive uber to supplement--which I've seriously considered) lol.

P.P.S Please read Leah's comments below because she is a much more experienced blogger than I and comes up with a lot of good points that I failed to clarify in this post (basically it's hard for me personally to write 100% unbiased review when it comes to free and gifted items).

Weekend Update/Ramblings

Visited Le Labo in Nordstrom this past week to restock on my lotions (which I talked about last weekend)

I've had this blog for almost 4 years now and I know it's time to do an update on the website design.  So I've started the process, but man it takes a lot of work.  I love writing blog posts but all this technical stuff is a hassle (though I know I can do it).  So please bear with this website design until I can get my act together to just sit down and do it.

Did you hear that Levi's is trying to get rid of all hazardous chemicals in jeans production by 2020?  I just love how both Everlane and Levi's (both headquartered in SF) are leading the way in sustainable denim!  Now Levi's is going to use lasers for distressing. Read all about it here.

Do you hate networking?  I hate networking in true introvert fashion.  I hope to never have to do it again, but if I do these tips are great to keep in mind.

And a mini product review for you today: I purchased these clips to help "train" my bangs (my hair salon person advised me to switch the part of my bangs because it was starting to thin out at the part.  By switching the part, I now have more volume but my bangs don't want to stay that way).  These clips are the best way to hold back hair without creating a dent/wave to your hair.  I hate buying more plastic but it's totally worth it when the thing works like a charm!  (If I knew anything about producing items I would love to make these clips with bamboo instead of plastic).

Anyway there's an exciting week coming up!  Finally finished the Jamie and the Jones heavyweight T sweater review so that'll be posted this week (Wednesday) and I wrote about the best and worst items that I received for free from brands to review (yep, ready to burn some bridges here lol).  Also my birthday's on Tuesday and I'll be hitting the big 3-5 :D

P.S. After I wrote this nice cheery post I went to the gym to swim, and someone cut the lock on my locker and stole my beautiful Celine wallet with all my credit/debit cards, phone, keys, and my favorite sunglasses.  :( It's so sad, but oh well it's just things.  But it's hard not to get things like this get you down...

Hesta Organic Cotton Underwear Review (and how they compare to PACT)

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I first heard of Hesta, a organic cotton underwear line from one of my favorite conscious style blogs, Dr.It Girl, soon after I did my PACT underwear review.  I love that I now have options for purchasing organic cotton underwear.  I purchased the set of 4 organic cotton Hesta undies from Amazon for $38 (compare that to 2 for $23 for PACT's organic undies at full-price so the Hesta underwear is a tiny bit cheaper).  It's interesting to note that Hesta also makes reusable organic cotton panty liners and incontinence pads.  

So what did I think of Hesta's organic cotton underwear?  Sorry to say but I'm not a fan.  And that's mostly because the elastic band around the leg holes ruin it for me.  I ordered a size medium (which is what I also ordered for PACT) and even though the waistband fits fine, the leg bands are tight (and the rest of the underwear feels big).  I also much prefer the flat elastic bands that Pact uses for their leg and waist bands.  I would say the Hesta underwear fits like boy shorts/hip-huggers but look like full-on granny panties.  

I emailed them to ask about where their undies are made, and they quickly replied letting me know their production factory is located in South Korea.  When I heard that, it clicked with me that these undies feel like my undies from childhood (since my mom used to buy my underwear from Japan all the time).  So if you're used to Asian-style underwear, this is what Hesta feels like.  

So I'm glad I gave Hesta a try, especially since I now know I will be reordering PACT again for the rest of my underwear needs.  But I have relegated these Hesta panties as back-up underwear and we'll see if I ever wear them.  

P.S. Did you see Leah's post about some other ethical undies brands?  I might try one or two of them (after I do a bit more research).  Have you guys tried any of these brands?  Or I wonder if I should just stick with PACT since that's what I like?

P.P.S. Actually since writing this post (about a week ago), I've ordered some items from Naja (bra, sports bra and cheeky underwear) to try out.  I really liked their message of female empowerment and eco-consciousness, but I hope their underwear is good too.  I guess I need to try more than one other brand to know whether or not Pact is the one for me!

La Mer Review: The Moisturizing Matte Lotion

La Mer The Moisturizing Matte Lotion

So I already have one thing to add to my worst purchases of 2018 and it's this lotion.  Womp womp :( I really wanted to like it, especially since it was a ridiculous $260 for this lotion.  Yep, isn't that insane?  Luckily I had some thank you points from my Citi credit card so I did not pay that much out of pocket.  But then I think of all the things I could have spent those points on and it makes me sad.  But on the bright side, I get to let all you acne-prone people know to stay away from La Mer.  And that's because their top ingredient (and what they're known for) is Algae (seaweed) extract.  And that is a pore-clogging ingredient.  *facepalm* . Of course I should be checking ingredients before spending so much money on something.  But guess I'll have to learn this the hard way.

Anyway if you have normal, not acne-prone skin this is actually a pretty great product.  It left the parts of my skin that didn't break out soft and helped my makeup from feeling too greasy during the day.  It's not a primer, but just a mattifying lotion.  Is it worth $260?  No, I don't think so even if your skin doesn't break out easily.  You are definitely paying for the name and the hype.  But if you tend to have combo/oily skin that doesn't break out easily, and an extra $260 lying around, sure it's great.  As for me, I'll stick with my cheap(er) but non-comedogenic lotions.

Anyway I'm selling this lotion, used about 7 times, at 75% off here.  Since it's a pump mechanism, the lotion inside hasn't been exposed to the elements.  So if you're interested in trying La Mer at a deeply discounted price, here's your chance!

How Shopping Slow/Ethical Fashion Has Changed My Style

Current wardrobe: Jamie + the Jones heavy knit sweater (review coming soon), Frame denim trousers (similar here), Sevilla Smith booties (reviewed here), Chanel crossbody bag (similar here)

It all started with Everlane.  Somehow they got on my radar and I just loved their message and their clothes.  But I've always loved the basic, solid-colored minimal look.  So naturally I loved their high-quality and fairly-priced basics.  Back then (about 3 years ago) I still liked to add a trendy item here or there and that's usually when I stepped into Zara or Madewell.  But since I've stopped shopping outside of slow/ethical fashion (for the most part), I no longer have the occasional trendy item.  At first I missed it, and tried to look for ways around it (like trying to find it at a Crossroads).  For example, a couple years ago the frilly, off-the-shoulder top was all the rage.  I couldn't find any that I liked at Crossroads, so I tried out a frilly top (near the tail-end of the trend I might add) from a new brand that advertised themselves as sustainable and eco-friendly.  But in the end it wasn't really my style (or it would have been if I was still working in an office, but that's not my life anymore).

Heeeeey... lol, my old style with a blazer.

Ever since then, I haven't really craved anything trendy.  I think I've been honing my style within the ethical/slow fashion world and tailoring it to my current lifestyle, to the point that I only add ethical/sustainable/non-fastfashion items to my wishlist.  I no longer go to malls and shop for clothes, though I still go to Crossroads to get my 'fix' of mainstream brands.  But lately all the people I've been following on blogs and Insta are those who share my interest of Elizabeth Suzann, Jamie+the Jones, Only Child, Everlane, etc.  I guess that's who I've surrounded myself with and my style has subsequently evolved.  And to be honest, I'm quite happy about it.  I love not really caring about the trends anymore.  It's liberating.  And it's really lowering the cost per wear for my keeper items since I keep repeating the same clothes over and over.  I wonder if this is what a timeless wardrobe feels like.  Or maybe I finally have my current uniform.

Elizabeth Suzann (ES) Georgia tee in silk, ES Clyde pants in linen

Jamie + the Jones raw silk Blank Canvas top, ES Clyde pants in linen

Either way slow/ethical/fair fashion definitely has changed my style but I'm not mad about it! :)

Weekend Update/Ramblings

Everlane towel in the background and if you're wondering colored eggs taste exactly the same as your run of the mill grocery store ones.

Jamie wrote this post about food in America which I found to really ring true for me.  I feel super lucky to live really close to (actually I'm surrounded by) farm land, so my Saturday Farmer's Markets are amazing.  I love the seasonality of the produce that comes to this small farmer's market and there's something to look forward to every week.  There's plenty of affordable organic produce and some of the best fruit I've ever had in my life (right now it's citrus season and the Cara Cara oranges are the best oranges I've ever had in my life and I'm not exaggerating here).  Lately I've also been buying huge bunches of chard and kale (3 bunches for $5) for my daily breakfast of greens and eggs, and it's been lasting me over a week.  I also spend $7.50 on eggs every other week (I know it's a ridiculous amount) because I really want to support a small farm that raises their chicken and goats ethically and the best way possible (plus they let me return my egg carton so as soon as I get my compost up, it'll be zero waste eggs!).  I think if eggs were no longer factory farmed, that would be the true cost of good eggs.  Anyway I'm willing to support my local farmers since it means they can continue to grow awesome produce.  Below is my homage to Jamie's awesome photo of the citrus in season in France lol.  Think of it like a Celeste Barber type post haha.

The less-TV-watching effort I mentioned from last week is going well.  I did watch one documentary on HBO called Atomic Homefront about people fighting to get radioactive waste from WWII nuclear bomb production moved away from a landfill in their backyards.  It's really heart-breaking to see people who can't move away because of money, but then have their kids and loved ones die early from crazy cancers.  I hate to be a cynic but sacrifice zones like this will appear as the amount of livable land shrinks, and there's not much we can do about it (except be grateful we don't live near one?).

And to talk about something less depressing, currently I'm loving Le Labo's Santal 33 body lotion.  The smell is subtle but really wonderful, not too sweet and not musky (this is the description: "A unisex fragrance that captures a defining image of the spirit of the American West and personal freedom" lol I wouldn't go that far but it's a great scent).  I got three small travel bottles from my stay at the Pulitzer Hotel in Amsterdam and have already gone through 2 of the bottles.  I'm definitely going to be ordering more, though I think I might try one of their other fragrances.  Have you guys tried Le Labo before?

P.S. Also, I'm talking about a sustainable wardrobe with 10 other fabulous bloggers over on Curated Cassi!  It's my first time showing up on another blog so I feel super grateful, thanks Cassi! :)

Tips from a recovered insomniac

Lately I've been having such good regular sleep (not to brag but I guess I am, lol) so I never really think about trying to get enough good quality zzzz's in my life anymore.  But recently with my Europe trip, I suffered crazy jet lag and had some solid insomnia.  And that reminded me of the nights when I used to toss and turn in bed trying to quiet my anxiety-ridden mind.  I used to have really bad insomnia (like I would take an Ambien every once in awhile).  But now I'm over the jet lag and sleeping well again so I thought I would share with you some of my secrets to a better night's sleep. 

Here's my biggest tip and basically what turned things around for me: learn how to meditate.  Ok ok I know that's not super easy (and I don't even have a regular meditation practice), but seriously it will do wonders.  And that's because meditating is basically a skill to get your mind to let go of the anxiety and the stressors that keeps you up at night.  I like to practice mindful meditation where I'll focus on my breathing.  Sometimes I will think "in" and "out" with each breathe.  Of course my mind will wander, but when I catch myself reverting to my "monkey mind" I bring it back to my breathe.  Or if I'm too restless for that I'll start with a body scan and then try to go to the mindful breathe exercises.  And for those who think, I'm too ADD to meditate, no one is good at meditating and everyone's minds wander.  The point is to learn how to bring it back to mindfulness.  Anyway I read this book and that's what inspired me to start meditating.  And really guys, even if you suck at it, it really helps you sleep better! 

Also if you wake up in the middle of the night and have a hard time falling back asleep: first, never check the time because it'll just fuel that 'did I get enough hours of sleep' or 'how much more time do I have left to sleep' anxiety.  Just know that even with poor sleep (like you only got 3 hours), you will live and you will survive.  You may not be at your best but that is totally ok.

Another tip for a better night's sleep: give yourself strict bed times.  I have a bad habit of watching my iPad or looking at my iPhone in bed.  And for the most part I can handle it because I give myself strict times where I make myself turn off my devices and close my eyes.  Also if you're watching TV/Netlfix in bed, never watch anything suspenseful, exciting or action-packed.  Watch a good 'ole documentary (Ken Burns always soothes me) or maybe something slightly boring (I watched episodes of Doc Martin for awhile there).

Exercise is also the key to a good night's sleep.  I find that when I have a regular exercise routine, I'm able to sleep through the night better.  Here are my tips to get yourself on an exercise routine.

I'm a fairly light sleeper and noises wake me up, so if I'm sleeping somewhere noisy (which is pretty much all the time when you live in a small trailer with a night-owl husband) I'll fall asleep to BBC4 radio podcasts.  All of the BBC4 podcasts are educational and most of them are interesting enough but not too interesting.  My favorites are A History of the World in 100 objects, In Our Time, and Thinking Allowed.  Something about their British accents just lulls me to sleep.  And I use earbuds like these, which are soft and meant for side-sleepers like me.

Ok, and if all else fails (like when I had that insomnia in Europe and needed to sleep so I could spend the next day wandering the streets of Paris) I take two Benadryl tablets.  I'm no doctor and am not advocating anyone pop pills, but I have found for me that two Benadryls do the trick (also if you're unsure but want to try, check with your physician first).  Actually all those night time sleep aids have the exact same active ingredient (Diphenhydramine HCl) as Benadryl, just at a larger dosage (and that's why I take 2 Benadryls).  Benadryl is also a lot cheaper than those marketed night sleeping aids.  But be warned, you will feel a bit groggy the next morning.  So really I only use this as the last resort.  And I never do it two nights in a row.

So anyone else have tips for an awesome night's sleep? 

P.S. Also as Jess commented below, it's key to have a dark room.  My Airstream trailer didn't come with black out curtains (they only started doing that in 2016), so I got these temporary blackout curtains and cut them up to fit my trailer windows.  

Unsponsored Reformation Review

Reformation has been the cool kid on the eco-friendly clothing brand block for awhile now.  They're probably one of the first and the biggest brands to be anti-fast-fashion and all about sustainability.  I find their RefScale to be an interesting way to keep track of how sustainable a garment is, and I love that Reformation works to reduce their carbon footprint by purchasing carbon offsets.  They really are an example of an environmentally friendly and all-around thoughtful company.  I think the bulk of their clothes are made in a factory in LA.

I am super blessed to live near a city that has one of Reformation's brick and mortar stores.  Just like I did for Outdoor Voices, I wanted to visit their store to not only reduce my packaging waste from online orders but also to try a bunch of things at once without the upfront cost.

I had a really fun time shopping there because they have completely changed the retail experience.  You can still browse the store as usual, but instead of taking that garment to a fitting room, you tell a sales associate and they input what you want in their iPad mini.  Then when you get to your fitting room, everything is all lined up for you by some unknown person who works on the other side of the closet (which I think is their stock room).  When you want to change the size, you can do it digitally via the screen in your room.  Then you close the closet, they add what you want, and then like magic the garment is hanging there for you when you reopen the doors.  You no longer have to deal with sales associate yelling at you through the door asking if you need another size (and the introvert in me loved this way of shopping).  You can also just shop digitally on a big screen and they will add all those garments into a fitting room.  

Each fitting room is also equipped with various lights and a place to plug in your phone for music.  I played with the lights but didn't bother with the music. 

In the 4 pictures below, I'm wearing Reformation's Galaxy top (100% silk, kind of reminded me of Grana's Georgette Satin silk) and trying out all 4 light settings.  Also wearing my Mott & Bow jeans and Sevilla Smith shoes.  I think the quality of their silk is good and I liked the cute frilly collar on this top but ended up deciding not to buy it since I'm actually trying to cut down on the number of silk items I own (since I never wear them).  

But here's the thing about Reformation that is kind of a deal breaker for me (well actually three things).  First of all, most of their clothes are made out of synthetics.  I know a lot of it is dead stock so it's not like they're producing more synthetics to make clothes but rather finding already-made synthetic material and using it for clothes.  But the end result is still synthetic clothing that not only requires dry cleaning, but also doesn't biodegrade or adds more microfibers to the environment.  Also I just don't like the feel of wearing synthetics anymore.  I've spoiled myself with Everlane, Grana, and Elizabeth Suzann clothing that are almost all made of natural fibers.  The second reason I will never be a Reformation gal is that their styling definitely skews young, like 20's-ish.  A lot of their styles is just not me.  And last but not least, a lot of their clothing (dresses and pants) are made for tall people.  The proportions just don't work for 5'4" me.

Wearing the Ray top here, which was my second favorite item

But again, I want to give them a fair shot and a fair review so I purchased my favorite out of all the items I tried on, which was this Cardinal dress in navy.  It's made out of a material they're calling eco-rib and it's made of 88% tencel and 12% spandex.  I haven't worn it out much yet since it's still so cold here.  But I know this would be a cute summer dress and I love the long-ish sleeves and flared skirt.  It reminds me of a figure skating dress.

I'll periodically update this review once I wear this dress more (and wash it).  

Anyone else try Reformation and if so, what did you buy?

Mindful Shopping: What I Want to Buy Next

One thing I did enjoy doing during my 'shopping ban' (and thank you so much to a reader for suggesting this!) was write out some of the items I've had my eye on.  It allowed me to see what things continued to be on my 'want' list (like the ES Clyde pants and Sevilla Smith shoes), but also what items I forgot about.  Well since I'm trying to buy less right now but have a lot of things I want to buy, I thought I might share them here and see which ones you guys think I should purchase and review next!

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numero un

1) Polene Numero Un or Trio Mini bag

This Parisian brand first caught my eye (through another reader) during my shopping ban (wrote about it here), and so I went to their showroom when I was in Paris.  Their bags are lovely, well-made and ethically made in Ubrique, Spain (that's the same town where Everlane makes their soft-leather bags like the fold over cross body bag).  You can see my whole experience on my Insta-story highlights.  But basically I loved both the Numero Un bag (the Mansur Gavriel lady bag look alike) and Numero Trio mini bag (the mini duffel).  I really want both, but should I?  Probably not >.<

2) Lenvers Sweater

This brand has been popping up all over my blogfeed and instagram and these sweaters do look dreamy.  But I know this isn't the wisest buy right now because California is heading into spring, so even if I buy this now I won't be able to use it until next season.  If I still love it next winter, I'll let myself buy something from them!

3) notPerfectLinen

But since we are headed for warmer weather, pieces from this small family-run business might not be a bad idea.  All linen pieces are made by hand in Lithuania and their pictures kind of remind me of Elizabeth Suzann's "factory".  I want to try their loose linen pants and their short kimono cardigan.  I'm curious to see how their linen feels compared to ES, Everlane and Grana.

4) Mansur Gavriel Mini Mini Lady Bag

I've owned the large MG lady bag (no longer being made), the regular and the mini.  Now I kind of want to see what the mini mini lady bag would be like.  But TBH this is probably the thing I want the least right now since I just got a new small going out bag (my navy Chanel cross body, similar here) and so I don't really need another one.

5) Girlfriend Collective Leggings

After my Outdoor Voices review, I had several readers reach out and tell me that Girlfriend Collective leggings are the best.  So now I'm interested in trying them out too and I've added them to this list.

Weekend Update/Ramblings

from my weekend work drive to pick-up an Airstream

I'm not sure if people want to read anything other than reviews here, but since I've had several things mulling around in my head, I thought I might as well share some with you.  I hope you find this interesting, and if not let me know (I can handle it).

I was reading one of my favorite blogs and found the story of Debi Thomas fascinating.  It sucked me right in.  She was before my time so I had never heard of her before (my figure skater crush always was/is Michelle Kwan), but what an interesting life story for the first black athlete to win a medal at a Winter Olympics.

Currently I'm trying to cutback on my Netflix watching.  TV always has been (and probably always will be) my unhealthiest addiction.  I'm a champion binge watcher and with Netflix (and Amazon Prime video, Hulu and HBO), I never run out of things to watch.  So it's really up to me to cut back and make sure I'm not wasting my life by just watching TV.  I knew it was a bit of a problem when I went to Europe and finished 2 TV series and a couple movies in 9 days (but they have different content over there and it's good).  I got hooked on a German TV series called Ku'damm 56 (not available here in the states).  But I did come back and watch Babylon Berlin, which I thought was also really fun to watch (as long as you don't mind subtitles).  Anyway it's been several weeks since cutting my TV viewing hours and it's been great (I've been writing so much more), though I do notice I now spend a lot more time on Instagram (especially stories).

Oh and I loved this post from Garance Dore about the magic of fashion, authentic fashion, and the evolution of our goals/dreams.  Even though her blog is quite commercial now and she doesn't write as much of it, I really love Garance's voice and attitude.  I loved her book and recommend it to those interested in style.

Speaking of authentic fashion, I think this year I'm going to decline any and all sponsored posts/gifted items.  I've been looking back at the stuff that I got last year and honestly, I never wear any of the stuff I got for free.  I think it's because when it's something I buy myself, I've been wanting it for awhile and I take the time to envision how it'll fit in my closet.  When it's an unexpected gift, it doesn't always fit into my style and I never love it as much as the stuff I paid money for.  And since I'm moving toward minimal waste, I don't think free things that I don't wear are a wise choice for me. 

Anyway how was that?  Good, bad, boring?  I rather enjoyed it, so this might become a thing (unless a lot of people say it was boring, lol).

Unsponsored Outdoor Voices Review {Updated March 2021}

I love doing reviews of brands that are really hyped that also give away a lot of free stuff to "influencers" because I am always dying to know are they really that great or do bloggers think they're great because they got it for free (and it's their 'job' to promote the brand).  And Outdoor Voices seem to fit that description to a tee.  Well here's an unadulterated review of their items from someone who paid for their items.

Outdoor Voices first came onto my radar via social media and because of their claims for sustainability and transparency.  And for the most part, it sounds like it's true.  Their practices seem comparable to that of Everlane's and Grana's.  You know they're at least trying so that's good.

I went to their store located in San Francisco since 1) I was already in the city for a dentist appointment and 2) I'm making an effort to visit brick and mortar stores when possible to cut down on my waste of packaging from online deliveries.  Also this way I could try their whole line-up without having to spend a fortune first (because believe me, their stuff ain't cheap).  

I tried a variety of stuff.  But first up: their Textured Compression leggings.  These are the bulk of their items (they only have 2 types, this one or the Tech Sweat which is up later).  These are the ones you see in 99% of their ads, that come with cute muted colors and chevron patterns.  In the pics below I'm wearing the 3/4 Leggings in Blue Quartz.  The 3/4 length is perfect for my 5'4" frame and for taller people you probably want to get the 7/8 length (unless you're looking for cropped leggings).  I'm wearing a medium (I'm usually a size 4-6).  I tried the small but the compression was too uncomfortable for standing so nevermind trying to workout in them.  And I'm wearing the tri-tone slash-back crop in a small (I'm a 36A on top).  

I love the color coordination and the overall color palette that they use.  I've never really liked that workout clothes were traditionally made with really bright colors or black.  The fit was good and I do think the leggings held me in and were flattering. 

But here's the secret I learned from the sales associate, their Textured Compression stuff doesn't "breathe" very well so if you're planning to do some serious sweating in your workout gear (which for me is a 'duh') then you're not going to want to get these.  When I heard that I was like 'whaaaaat?' lol.  So basically the Textured Compression is meant for walking your dog, hiking, and not-hot yoga, which means it's meant to be athleisure with an emphasis on the leisure.

{side note: Also for those who tried on Grana's athletic gear last year (they called it Taiwanese Tech, lol), this Textured Compression felt similar to that.  There's some stretch (but not a lot) and the matte-material felt less smooth than traditional sportwear.  I never ended up reviewing those items since I did not like the feel at all, and was able to sell them at Crossroads--that's right you can buy/sell athletic clothes at Crossroads now!  I scored a cute Calvin Klein Sports bra there the other day.}

So since I plan to actually work-out in my workout clothes, the sales associates pointed me towards their Tech Sweat stuff.  Now this is what I'm familiar with.  It feels like my usual Nike and Lululemon leggings thats made of a smooth non-matte material and with a lot more stretch.  Above, I'm wearing the Tech Sweat 3/4 leggings and Steeplechase bra (which is made from Textured Compression, but I liked it because it has removable cup inserts).

I ended up purchasing the outfit in the pic above (the Tech Sweat leggings and Steeplechase bra) mostly so that I can give an accurate review if I'm being honest.  I actually have more than enough workout gear from a Lululemon binge from 3 -4 years ago, and I love my Lulus a lot (more than these Outdoor Voices leggings and bra).  But after reading this blog post from To Universe with Love (scroll down to #77, #78 and #81 where she talks about reviews), I was inspired to do even better with my reviews.  So I decided to make it a fair review I need to buy these items and use it.  So I've been putting them through it's paces at the gym.  I've been loving the leggings fine, (though I find them to be a bit slippery when trying to do the tree-pose in hot yoga) but I've not reached for the bra after using it once.  The Textured Compression is just not a favorite for me so I just find myself reaching for my old reliable Lulu sports bras.  It's just too compressive or maybe I should have sized up for a more comfy fit (which is actually what I did for some Lulu bras).

Anyway If you're interested in trying them out, here's a $20 off referral link for first-time buyers.

{March 2021 Update: For those who are interested, I did a leggings comparison review here (where I compare OV with Everlane Perform leggings and Girlfriend Collective).

Winner of the Valentine's Day Giveaway

And the winner is Lynn B.!  Thanks to everyone who entered!  Giveaways make me so happy so I'm sure I'll be doing more soon :)

My Best And Worst Purchases From 2017 And The Lessons I Learned

As a continuation of sorts of my post about learning how to shop mindfully, today I'm going to review my best and worst purchases of 2017.  When I reviewed all the things I purchased to make this list I had to laugh (this was me on a shopping ban?!).  Anyway I hope by analyzing my purchases, and learning the lessons behind some of my mistakes, I can be more mindful in the future of what I'm buying.

The Best

1) Marley's Monsters facial rounds and machine-washable sponges: Still going strong with these items and goes to show that when you upgrade to zero waste items, they will become your workhorses (as long as they are made well, which these are).  I actually put in second order during their birthday sale this year to try more things.

2) Plaine Products: I also re-ordered a bulk supply of their original line of shampoo, conditioner and body wash for myself and for my Airstream guests after writing that initial review.  Yes, they're not the most luxe products out there but they do the job and don't break me out.  Plus I am no longer producing waste from my bath products.  Again going zero waste has steered me right in this case.

3) Secondhand Georgia Tee from eBay: So I wasn't supposed to buy any clothes in 2017 but then I got it into my head that if it was an even "trade" then it was ok.  Well I'm glad I did break the rules, otherwise this beautiful top from Elizabeth Suzann wouldn't have entered my life.  This was actually my first ES piece and I love it.  Lesson with this one?  Sometimes it pays to break the rules?  Or maybe a slow fashion item on the secondhand market is extra sweet.  I also bought the Tilda pants secondhand but the size wasn't right on those so I sold it back through eBay and ended up paying $20 for the experience of trying them on (but also not having to wait a whole month to do so).

4) Patagonia swim wear: So again more clothes during the year of no-clothes shopping, but I made the exception because I was investing in my fitness.  After my ski accident earlier last year and the need to change my workout routine, I had to get the proper gear for my new swim workouts.  And I haven't regretted the purchase one bit.  I'm still swimming weekly (most of the time) and so I'm still wearing these suits all the time.  They've held up really well!

5) My Celine wallet from Fashionphile: Again purchased this one because I needed a proper wallet.  It looks like my best purchases (like #4 above) are items that fulfill a specific need.  No regrets on breaking the shopping ban for this one.

The Worst

1) This backpack from Building Block: it was an impulse buy, purchased on sale when I was killing time with shopping.  Mistakes all around!  Lessons learned: a) don't kill time with shopping b) especially when there's sales c) and no impulse purchases during sales season (only items you've already had your eye on).  Also realized I'm just not a backpack person.  

2) All my Glossier purchases except for one item (review 1 and review 2): Hyped-about skin care for the general public is just not doable for my super sensitive acne-prone skin.  The boy brow was the only thing I liked and used up.  But I don't want to re-purchase it because I don't need to be adding more plastic to landfills just for better brows (especially when I'm perfectly happy with my Shu Uemura brow pencil that has lasted me 5+ years and which when it's gone, won't leave any plastic around).  I did keep the boy brow container though since the wand is great for combing out brows.  I wonder if I can refill it with some kind of natural product and reuse it?

3) This Supergoop set: Again same lesson as #2 above, I can't be buying beauty products willy nilly because it looks good.  Packaging got me again.  And now I've contributed more plastic to landfills SMH.

4) Akamai products: Also, did not do much research on this one, but went off one blogger's recommendation.  I probably will take that blogger's reviews with a grain of salt because I did not like any of these products.  I did force myself to use up the skin oil but couldn't finish any of the other stuff.  Just because a sustainability-focused blogger promotes eco-friendly products, doesn't mean as much this day and age I guess (and that motivates me to make sure my reviews are better and more accurate than ever).

5) Loewe Hammock Bag (reviewed here): Yep, I purchased a new bag during my shopping ban (well more than one).  This time breaking the rules did not pay-off.  But I did research this bag thoroughly, so I thought it was for me.  But in the end I was trying to use this when what I really wanted was the Hermes Lindy.  Once I got the Lindy, I realized all the ways this bag wasn't as good.  Maybe the lesson on this one is don't buy a placeholder, and instead save your money for the thing you really want.  Lost quite a lot of money on this lesson!

I'm interested to hear, what were some of your best and worst purchases in 2017 and why?

Unsponsored Sevilla Smith Review of the Terilyn Booties {Updated February 2021}

Ok guys here it is, the review that several of you asked for: the review of the Sevilla Smith Terilyn booties (if you're not familiar with Sevilla Smith, it's a woman-run shoe-making biz that makes all their shoes by hand and thus its customized to your specifications).  I got this one with soft powder grey leather (in the 2cm heel height).  And as you could tell from my Insta that I love love LOVE these shoes!  Out of the box, I had no issues whatsoever with my usual problem, a particularly wide forefront of the foot.  They truly do feel like a leather glove for your feet, especially with the softness of this leather.

{For the first picture I'm wearing: Everlane waffle cashmere sweater, Levi's 501 jean, Sevilla Smith Terilyn booties.  For the picture above I'm wearing: Grana cropped cashmere, Elizabeth Suzann Clyde pants,  Sevilla Smith Terilyn booties}

First a note on sizing.  I ordered these in a 7.5 (my usual size), which is a 38 in European sizes.  I had thought about paying extra for the wide lasting since I do have a wider foot.  But in the end I decided if the leather will stretch, I should be ok (and I am!).  I do however 100% recommend measuring your foot before ordering and following her very detailed sizing guide.  I didn't because I'm a lazy blogger and I think I might have been able to go with a size 7 (with possibly a wider last).  As you can see from some of the pictures, I'm really stretching out the leather and you can see the outline of my toes and the forefront of my foot.

I also say that I could have gone with a 7 because I found that I had a smidge of extra space around the heel and because the leather is so soft, it kind of folds into that space (you can really see it in the sideview picture of the booties).  It kind of bothered me in the beginning that it would slouch/fold like that, but now it doesn't bother me.  Especially since I added these heel pads:

I'm just not used to such hard soles for shoes.  There's zero padding, which I think is good for your foot muscles but I'm too old to retrain my foot muscles.  I found that if I wore these too long (before I got the heel pads), it would aggravate my plantar fasciitis (damn you old age and decades of running).  Now that I've got these heel pads, I've got no complaints.  So for my next pair of Sevilla Smiths (and you bet there's going to be a next one) I might just stick with the size and add the heel pads from the get go to avoid the folding-at-the-heel issue (or choose a sturdier leather for the boot).

Overall I just really love these shoes and Sevilla Smith.  Yes, they're expensive but they're also made start-to-finish by one person (and compare that to uber expensive designer shoes and you can really start seeing the value of these).  The shoebag that comes with the shoes are so cute (and practical with a slot for each shoe so they don't rub against each other).  Also I've never owned a hand-lasted shoe with no glues and binders and so I was really enchanted with the way the soles are held together with nails.  The shoes come with special instructions on how to maintain them (ie when you're going to need to take them in for repair), so I look forward to using these for a long time to come.  And of course I'll be periodically updating this review as they age!

{February 2021: Hi there, sorry this post is due for a major update. So the heel things did not help with the sizing issue (though they did help with the hard soles issue). So I have to say it’s key to make sure you get the right sizing, especially for these soft leather type of shoes. If you go for the soft leather, I would recommend sizing down (and I probably should have gone with the wider last for my wide-ish foot). Anyway in the end I sold these shoes on ebay since I just wasn’t wearing them that much, but I do miss them from time to time (cuz they’re such good looking shoes).

Why a Shopping Ban is not the solution

Yep, another new item.  From Jamie + the Jones (review soon)

After posting about my post-shopping ban binge (here), I realized that the shopping ban essentially didn't change my shopping habits for the better.  I didn't actually learn anything from doing a so-called shopping ban and in fact it just caused bingeing in other areas of my life and post ban.

But what I haven't mentioned before is that I've actually tried a shopping ban like this before, back in 2014.  That year, I was a lot more successful and I was able to change some of my shopping habits (sort of).  I did buy less for a couple years, but during the shopping ban (which again was for just clothes, not everything) I ended up buying a lot of beauty products.  I got really good at doing my own nail polish and makeup, and I also bought a ton of nail polish and makeup.  So I see now that my actual impulsive spending was just funneled to a different area (what was "allowed").  And then with the start of the blog, I ended up going back to my old spending habits.  So that first ban didn't do much.

But I'm going to try to learn from my second failed ban of 2017.  Here are some of the lessons I've learned:

1) To quit shopping fast fashion (which was one almost-successful thing I did during this shopping ban), you just have to stop walking into those stores and going to malls (if you can help it).  Don't even look into their display windows.  Just walk straight past it like a horse with blinders.  No one needs fast fashion in their life (there's well-priced sustainable clothing, just look at the second hand market).  Shopping is not a past-time, it should be treated as a rare treat or an action taken when something specific is needed.

2) Never going to do a ban again.  Instead I have to learn how to make more mindful purchases and less impulsive ones.  I'm still not quite sure exactly how that evolution is going to come about but if I learn how I'll let you know, lol.  Anyone have tips on how they make more mindful purchasing decisions?  The StyleBook app has at least helped me see how much I've spent on my closet and how much of the stuff I'm actually using.  As I've been adding to my digital closet, I've been selling items that I don't want to bother entering into the app.  This has helped me bring the number of things in my closet to a more manageable range (slowly).

3) I will never quite be the minimalist that I envision myself capable of becoming.  I've tried to be that person, and have at times had a pretty minimal closet.  But then I would end up filling that closet back up again.  Instead of trying to be someone else, I'm going to try to be me but better.  If I continue to want to buy (which I've come to accept is me) then I should be focusing my research and dollars to purchasing better and possibly upgrading things when it comes time to replace them.  I feel like I've definitely made progress in my closet in this aspect, but I can buy better in lots of other things as well (home, beauty, kitchen, etc.).  As for my closet, going to keep trying to do the one-in-one-out rule.  I'm going to try to designate a function for each item and when something new is purchased in that function category, the old one will be sold.  For example I don't have anything exactly like the Jamie+the Jones sweater up top, but I do have a light colored textured knit from TopShop which will be heading out of the closet soon.  And if the new replacement isn't as good as the old one or I don't want to sell the old one, I'll not buy the new item (that's how it would work in theory anyway).

A binge shopper, much like a binge eater, needs to learn how to do things mindfully.  I see that now and that's the path I'm going to strive to find and stick to.

The Scrooge of Valentine's {Giveaway closed}

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Bah Humbug!  I cannot think of a better term to describe Valentine's day (since "humbug" means something designed to mislead).  To me Valentine's Day is a 'holiday' made by the marketers to mislead people to buying more useless things (and they tell you it's in the name of love).  Bah humbug!  As if you already didn't buy enough stuff during the holidays.

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Does this come off especially Scrooge-y?  Maybe I didn't get enough Valentine cards when I was younger >.< lol.  Well I think I've only celebrated 2 Valentines days with my husband, after which I told him how I really feel about Feb 14th, to which he was more than happy not to have to buy me anything or do anything special for this bogus day.  So there will be no gift guides of heart-shaped items coming from me (ever). 

But I bring this all up because recently I've had a bit of a change of heart (or maybe I've seen the ghost of Valentine's Future, lol).  I still don't think you should buy anything for Valentine's Day but it wouldn't hurt to do things that show love.  Yes, lets celebrate by expressing love and kindness to our significant others, friends, family, and your fellow woman/man.  And yes, we should probably be doing this as many days as we can, and not just one day per year.  But why not make a special effort for today?

So today I want to show my love to you, my readers, who not only read my words here but also give me advice and more ideas (and generally enrich my life through your comments here and/or on Insta).  And I'm going to express my love by giving away a diamond ring (ok well pave diamonds to be exact).  This dainty band was purchased at Fighting Eel in Hawaii and is part of their ROLA jewelry line.  This band is 14K rose gold and a size 6.  If you don't want to wear it, I'm sure you can pawn it (it retailed for $280).  This giveaway is not sponsored or affiliated with Fighting Eel.  The giveaway is open internationally and will end at 2/20 at midnight PST.  Winner will be announced 2/21!  Just enter the form below and please only one entry per person.

My post-ban shopping binge

Lol, as you can see this is not my insta-story though it might have been.  I had set aside some money to perhaps purchase an Hermes Birkin or Kelly during my trip to Paris (as an early bday present to myself).  Every basic blogger's dream, right?  But when it came down to it I just couldn't bring myself to spend that much money for a bag (we're talking about $10k+ here).  With all the good $10k can do, it felt irresponsible and possibly even morally wrong to spend it on a bag (though I really don't want to bring ethics/morals into this because who am I to judge).  Anyway in the end I just realized it's not me.  Sure I can spend several thousands on a used Hermes bag (my Lindy from Fashionphile!)  but 10K for a new Hermes? Nope (or maybe I need to move out of a trailer first for that to be something I can bring myself to do >.< lol).  I also realized that by buying a brand new Birkin in Paris I might be trying to compete with insta-famous bloggers like Chiara (who's the owner of that orange Birkin) and I am not in that league nor do I want to be.  Like what am I trying to prove?

So instead I ended up buying all this *facepalm*

Clockwise from top: Gerard Darel sweater (Paris), SmaakAmsterdam Blake Purse (Amsterdam), Longchamp Le Pliage Cosmetics Case (Paris), Celine small Cabas Phantom tote {authentic used ones here, here and here for really good prices} (Paris), prints and key chain (Amsterdam), Chanel navy caviar crossbody {sorry don't know the name} (Heathrow), Celine Medium Strap Wallet (Amsterdam), Net bag from Le Bon Marche's Le Grande Epicerie (Paris), Haribo {aak the plastic} (London), small dish from Spiegen (Amsterdam) 

I may not be buying brand new Birkins, but I'm not above wasting money on Chanel >.<.  This is also a lot of new stuff at once for me, especially coming off a shopping ban {side note: even though I pretty much failed at the shopping ban, I was clearly trying since this is what happens when I'm not trying}.

I also realized that with all this new stuff, comes the responsibility as a conscious consumer to use it well and dispose of it well.  Most of this stuff I'm pretty sure I can eventually resell so when it comes to disposing that's no problemo (but sorry world for more plastic in the landfill).  To be honest though, with all this new stuff I'm afraid I won't really be able to use it well.  Especially since I still have a lot of old things that I really love (like my used Celine wallet and Celine Sangle both from Fashionphile).  It reminds me of Grechen's recent post about diluting your wardrobe with too many new pieces.  That's how I feel right now.  I'm not sure how I'll be able to use and love the new stuff and the old stuff all at the same time (this is also a realization as I continue to use the StyleBook app since I can only reduce my cost per wear overall if I stop getting new things and keep using the old stuff).  First world problems, eh?  I guess I'll just count my blessings and continue to cull my wardrobe (since I'm trying to follow the one-in-one-out rule).  My lovely stuff will be listed on my closet sale page.  And I'll also need to cool-it in the spending department so that I can fully appreciate what I have now (but I'm not calling it a shopping ban).

How to get your VAT refund in Europe

This post was a request so if you aren't planning a trip to Europe that includes shopping, go ahead and skip this post.  But for all those who are interested about the process read on :) . Also I'm no expert so please let me know if I got something wrong, thanks!

So first of all, VAT stands for "value-added tax" and it basically means all products sold in Europe already have their tax baked into the price of the good.  This is unlike the US, where we add an additional percentage of tax to the retail price.  So in the EU, the price you pay includes the tax, which you are eligible to get back if you don't live in the EU.  This is where the VAT refund process comes into play.

So depending on the country, the VAT tax rebate percentage varies.  In France it was about 10% and in the Netherlands it was up to 13%.  Some countries, like the Netherlands also increase the percentage the more you spend on the good.  There are also differing spending thresholds, so for example you have to spend at least 175 euros in France before the refund kicks in while in the Netherlands it was 50 euros.  I went online to see what the various VAT percentages per country are and for the most part the real VAT percentages are a lot lower (I think it also depends on what you buy).  Just ask the sales person before you purchase to find current VAT rates.

Also most stores will ask for your passport to fill out the VAT refund pages so you do have to bring your passport with you while shopping.  If this makes you nervous, just make sure to leave a copy of your passport in the hotel and carry your passport securely (as in a cross body bag that you keep in front of you at all times--this is what I did; or use one of these).   

So when you're buying something over the threshold amount for the refund, ask the sales clerk to prep your VAT refund documents.  If you're buying something at a department store, they usually have their own tax refund office so you can get your refund immediately (you'll still have to get your papers stamped, but more on that later).  If you're at a regular store, they'll give you the refund papers and the receipt.  Keep these together.

And the last step is to go to the VAT refund office at the last stop within the EU to get your papers stamped and get your money back.  You do the VAT refund process all at once at the very end of your trip even if you bought things from different countries.  So for me this was Heathrow Airport in London even though I purchased my things from France and the Netherlands.  There's a VAT refund counter at every terminal in Heathrow.  Check where the refund office is at the airport you're flying out of online.  Allow time before you check-in to get this done.  When I went I was able to do it all in less than 10 minutes but I had no lines.  If there's lines I heard it can take up to an hour.  They basically take all your papers, check your passport and then calculate what you get back.  They didn't ask to look at what I bought but it's a possibility so be prepared for that (either pack it in your carry on, or at the top of your stuff in your checked bags).  That's also why you want to do it before you check into your flight.

And here's my biggest tip for doing the VAT refund.  Get it back in cold hard cash if you can, not a refund via credit card.  I'm still waiting for my VAT refund from the department store in the Netherlands that 'guaranteed' it would get charged back to my card in 3 days.  It's been over a week and still nothing (boo!).  And at this point there's nothing I can really do about it.  So even if they take a commission for giving it back to you in cash it's worth it.  (My friend also said they didn't get their VAT refund from the airport when they did it via credit card so be warned).  Oh and I was able to get my VAT refund at Heathrow in dollars and they didn't charge a commission.  

So that's it!  If you guys have any questions just shoot me a comment below!