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Moving from conspicuous to conscious consumption and doing reviews along the way.  Find plenty of unsponsored reviews of Quince, Everlane, Grana, and Cuyana on the site!  I'm working towards a minimal waste lifestyle, and oh yea I love bags >.<

Unsponsored Esby Review: The Duffy Jumper

As I mentioned in my June Wants and Buys post, I saw the Esby Duffy Jumper on Brianna here and fell in love instantly. I had to try this out. Buuuut I definitely did not want to spend $298 on it, so I searched for it secondhand on good ole’ reliable: eBay. And lucky me, there was one in this denim blue color for half the price and in my size (or what I guessed was my size). Brianna got it in an XS and even though she’s skinnier and taller than me, I figured an XS would fit since it’s a drawstring waist and oversized to begin with.

So what do you think?

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I’m wearing my favorite heels here (Everlane’s Day Heel Mule) and the hem is still grazing the ground. If I loved this jumper I would consider hemming it to better fit my 5’4” frame. I do like the wide legs bottom and the flattering sleeves. However there are a couple other things I dislike about the jumper so I rather sell it than alter it in hopes of making it fit me and my current wardrobe. The main thing I dislike it the neckline. It’s either a little too high-up for my liking or worn in reverse, it’s waaay too low for comfort.

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The material (a 90% cotton, 10% linen blend) is quite heavy and thick, which isn’t great for the super hot summers here (100% linen is better). And although the heavy material provides a nice drape, I can also see it being a huuuge pain in the ass to keep from touching the ground when using the bathroom (also due to the wide legs). And since there’s no give to the fabric, when I wear it with the round collar forward it kind of feels like it’s choking me. Overall, this jumper is just not for me. Which is too bad too since I really wanted to like this US-made ethical brand. I just have a feeling their stuff may be made for women who at least 5’7” or taller. Or just be ready to alter their clothes to fit.

Tips On How To Wear Your Secondhand Clothes More Often {Updated January 2021}

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The other day, I noticed a couple instagram stories where people were taking a screenshot and labeling in which posts they were wearing a secondhand/thrifted/used item. So I decided to give it a try and see many times I posted wearing something used. To my surprise I wore or featured a secondhand item in almost every post. I really wasn’t expecting that. But this made me think as to why I’m able to incorporate so many of my secondhand items into my daily wardrobe and the following were some of my conclusions (hint: a lot of it starts with buying the right used clothing):

1) Only buy used items that’s on your “wants list”

So there are two ways I usually shop for secondhand items: 1) Go to a Crossroads, browse items, try them on, and then take some home or 2) Have something specific in mind (usually something I see on Instagram) and then stalk either TheRealReal, eBay, or the selltradees account for that specific item. In the above grid there’s only one post (the most bottom left pic) where I’m wearing a used item procured through method 1. All the other secondhand items I’m wearing in the rest of the posts were purchased using method 2. So clearly for me that’s what works best. As much as I enjoy going thrift shopping, I find that I wear items more if I clearly want them first (and put them on a “want list”) and then buy them after months of waiting. This probably applies for any new addition to your closet, not just the secondhand items.

2) Buy high ticket items secondhand

The used items that I wear most often are the expensive stuff like leather bags (like the Acne Studios Musubi bag reviewed here or the Celine soft cub bag reviewed here) and shoes (like the Martiniano Glove shoes reviewed here). First off, luxury/expensive items tend to wear better with time so even if you buy them “preowned” they don’t feel worn out. In fact I like to get my luxury items used because 1) they’re a much better value since they’re usually considerably cheaper and 2) I don’t baby my stuff yet I don’t want to be the first one to put a scratch on the leather so if it comes a little scuffed up already then I don’t have to sweat it. Just buy them from a reputable source (my favorite is of course Fashionphile—which I talk about here). {Update: I also have tips on how to purchase secondhand luxury items here.}

3) Buy high-quality classic or base pieces

My most used secondhand items, after bags and shoes, are classic pieces of clothing. So that would be my Elizabeth Suzann Georgia Dress (reviewed here) and my ES Mara Jumpsuit (reviewed here). These items can be worn on their own or layered during the winter to change up the look. And because they’re such classics, I don’t get bored with them.

4) Do a 10x10 Challenge with them

So if you’re not familiar with the 10x10, it’s an Instagram challenge to wear 10 items of clothing in 10 different outfits over 10 days. I love using my secondhand items in these 10x10 challenges because they really push you to come up with different outfit variations (like layering 2 pieces you never thought of combining—and yes sometimes it can get weird). But sometimes you end up with a combo that you really like and now you have some easy go-to combos with your secondhand item. And that makes it just that much easier for you to incorporate your used item into your daily wardrobe.

5) Repeat often

When you do #4 above, you’ll find your go-to, no brainer outfits and those are best for days when you’re on auto-pilot and the last thing you want to mull over is your wardrobe. So then you end up repeating your feel-good, high quality (tip #2) classic base pieces (tip #3) most often. In the above grid I’m repeating my ES Georgia Dress twice, my ES Mara jumpsuit twice, and Martiniano Glove shoes twice. And to keep track of how much you wear your secondhand clothes, use a closet tracker like the Stylebook App.

What about you guys? What are some of your secrets in getting more wear out of your used items?

Unsponsored Only Child Clothing Review: The Cove Pants {Updated December 2020}

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I’m just like any other blog reader out there who are influenced by those sponsored posts. So even though I was trying to be good and add only one item of clothing to my closet per month, I added this Only Child Cove pants to my closet in March (along with the many other things I purchased that month) because of Andrea’s posts of these pants here.

I wasn’t even searching for wide leg pants but something about the way she styled those pants made me think I was missing a key piece in my wardrobe. Plus I needed some new pants in my life because even at 8 weeks postpartum, this belly is not going away on its own (P.S. Contrary to popular belief, breastfeeding does not help you to lose weight—especially when eating like 5 lactation cookies a day lol. Also the fibroids are still in there and distorting my uterus). So instead of wearing the same pair of maternity overalls and storq easy pants over and over, I decided to let myself get a new pair of pants I could actually fit in. And boy, I have zero regrets!

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{Wearing: Everlane cotton linen v-neck (reviewed here), Only Child Cove Pants, Everlane Street Sandals (no longer sold, reviewed here), Everlane Mini Form Bag (reviewed here)}

First of all I got a medium to accomodate my new pooch and I have no problems getting them over my hips and belly (this is a major reason why I can’t wear most of my Elizabeth Suzann items from pre-pregnancy even though those bottoms are loose-looking). I find the elastic of these Only Child pants to be less stiff (ie more stretchy) than the thick elastic on Elizabeth Suzann bottoms (which don’t stretch out as much but might last longer). I appreciate the quality elastic on ES bottoms but sometimes it’s too tight, and even pre-pregnancy I had to shimmy the pants over my hips. No need for shimmying in these OC pants.

I also got the Cove pants in the short length since I’m 5’4” and they hit right at the top of my foot. But since these pants are so wide in the leg, I wanted them to hit closer to the ankles. So I hemmed them by an inch and that’s what you see in the pics here (or rather my mom hemmed them lol).

And now that I look at them, I see that they’re pretty similar to the Florence pants from Elizabeth Suzann since I’ve hemmed them. The only real difference that I can see between the two is that the ES Florence pants come up a little shorter and they’re a tad snugger in the hips than the original OC Cove pants. But the linen quality (which even in this light flax color is fully opaque) between the two brands are similar (as discussed in this linen discussion here) and the price points between the two are pretty similar as well (with the OC one being slightly cheaper). I think if you want wide leg pants that are a tad snugger with a tighter elastic around the waist go for the ES Florence pants, but if like me you’re looking for loose pants that fit basically like PJs, then go for the OC Cove pants.

P.S. Also take a look at Lia’s comment below about the difference in the rises between the ES Florence pants and the OC Cove pants.

{December 2020 Update: So I’m not sure when OC added pockets to their Cove pants but they now have pockets! That really makes these the best pants and I’ve been wearing them a lot this past years (because hello elastic waistband lol). I also just wrote a post comparing these Only Child Cove pants to the Linenfox Ocean pants if you’re interested in how they compare.}

Unsponsored Only Child Clothing Review: The Linen Alta Top {Updated March 2021}

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I’ve reviewed the Only Child Alta top in raw silk (in size XS/S) before here, but I thought I would add a review of this linen alta top in size S/M too since it’s a tad different from the first Alta top I purchased. I originally got this during OC’s end of summer sale and so I’ve had this for awhile now and I’m finally ready to review! Also just noticed that Haley no longer stocks the Alta in linen since she’s moved onto the winter collection but I’m sure she’ll bring it back next summer.

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Only Child Review Alta Top

{Wearing: Only Child Linen Alta top (S/M), over Elizabeth Suzann Mara Jumpsuit (reviewed here), Arizona Birkenstocks, Celine Soft Cube bag (similar here, reviewed here)}

So I’ve talked about OC’s linen quality before here and like I said in that review, they use the good stuff! Theirs is as good as Elizabeth Suzann and so this Alta top does feel a lot like my old ES Georgia tee (reviewed here). But the two tops are pretty different in shape. First the Alta top doesn’t have wing tip type sleeves like the Georgia, and the Alta top has a high-front, low-back parabola shape to is that I love. I also love that the collar line on the Alta is a bit more fitted.

Compared to my XS/S silk version, this S/M linen version is much less cropped and definitely more voluminous (which is perfect for hiding my preggo belly). Also the sleeve length is also better for me in the S/M (for reference I’m 5’4” and usually wear a size 4 on top).

So right now they only have this top in raw silk, wool or tencel (those wool and tencel ones look so dreamy!). But I look forward to wearing this in the winter anyway layered under jacket or maybe over some long sleeve tees. The fun thing about this top is that it can work a lot of ways! So even though I now have two Alta tops, each one feels so different and yet so versatile! Stay tuned on Insta and here for more ways to wear this top in the winter.

{March 2021 Update: I wanted to let you know that I ended up selling my linen alta top because as much as I liked it, I always ended up reaching for the raw silk version more. I think the linen was not drapey enough for an oversized top and I felt kind of like I was wearing a sail. So I decided to sell this linen version and I purchased the an Alta top in black raw silk in a size down XS/S. I have to say I’m very happy with my decision since I reach for the black raw silk Alta a lot. Now OC is phasing out the use of raw silk and makes their new Altas in a cotton/silk blend (which I’m curious about). Hmm I wonder if it’s time to think about trying another Alta? I’m becoming quite the Alta addict lol.}

Lauren Manoogian Review: The Tube Skirt {Updated February 2021}

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This past post-summer sale season I got sucked into buying two things (which I was happy about for being quite minimal for me but also not happy about because I was trying to buy zero items), one of which was this Lauren Manoogian skirt (the other was the linen Alta top from Only Child). Here I was feeling all superior not partaking in the sale season frenzy and saying things like, don’t plan for Fall and instead live in the moment. But then after seeing Grechen’s notification post of things for sale at the Garmentory and specifically about this skirt, I succumbed to temptation >.< . I was especially tempted after seeing Grechen rock her version of this skirt here. This skirt was just made for Autumn!

I’ve been hearing about Lauren Manoogian around on the ethical blogosphere, and she’s known for her awesome knit pieces. She believes in sustainability and thus works with Peruvian artisans to knit pieces from consciously-sourced materials. The number of items she makes every season is limited, but you know they’re made well and made to last. You can read more about her ethics here.

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Lauren Manoogian Review

{Wearing: Everlane Waffle Cashmere (review here), Lauren Manoogian Skirt (similar here), Everlane Day Heel Mules (review here), Hermes Lindy 30 (similar here, review here)}

You can no longer find this skirt for sale anywhere on the internet (this is a 2017 release). {2021 Update: LM has brought back the skirt in a similar style but with a side split now so it’s easier to walk in!}. But you might be lucky enough to score an LM skirt on eBay or some other secondhand site. And if you do, I highly hiiiighly recommend you snatching it up if you’re even a tiny bit interested. Because this skirt is so awesome. It’s a blend of pima cotton and merino wool, which means it’s slightly warm but not at all itchy. There’s also quite a bit of stretch, which is perfect for my pregnant belly. Also, that means it’s not that hard to walk in either.

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Lauren Manoogian Review

I’m wearing a size 2 here, which is their medium. I also like that I can hike the skirt up to work with my cropped tops and show some ankle.

The one thing I don’t like about the skirt though is that you can see my panty lines with it, which is surprising considering it’s a knit. But since the tube skirt is so form-fitting, you can get some VPL if you’re not wearing the right underwear.

But despite that, I really enjoy wearing this sweater skirt! It’s the perfect comfy, stretchy piece to pair with my sweaters. Also the quality is top notch, and rest assured when you’re getting something from Lauren Manoogian, you’re getting a well-made item made to last!

{February 2021 update: It’s been over two years and this skirt is still going strong! It’s in excellent condition and I love it just as much as when I first purchased it. This skirt is a real classic!}

Unsponsored Linenfox Mona Top Review (a dupe for the Elizabeth Suzann Georgia Tee?) {Updated December 2020}

I love this community of slow fashion folks because you guys are recommending things all the time, and sometimes, like this Mona top from Linenfox, it’s a home-run! Sorry I can’t remember who recommended this, but they had mentioned that this Linenfox top is a dupe for the Elizabeth Suzann Georgia Tee (reviewed here). And was she right? Yuuuup it’s a dupe folks!

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Unsponsored Only Child Clothing Review: The Alta Top in Raw Silk {March 2021 Update}

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Hi guys and welcome to my first review of Only Child Clothing, another purveyor of beautiful slow fashion pieces.  For me, Only Child is local with all their items made by hand in Oakland, CA.  I first talked about Only Child here, when I mentioned meeting Haley (the founder of OC) at West Coast Craft.  It was there that I purchased this Alta Top in raw silk, and it was love at first wear.  Since then (about 1 month) I've worn this top 10 times.  That might not seem like a lot but if you break it down, that's at least twice a week, and sometimes three.  I've also washed it multiple times and it's held up like a champ!  I really really love this top and would someday like to buy another one in raw silk in a different color!

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{Wearing: Only Child Alta TopEverlane Easy Chino pants (reviewed here), Everlane V Slingback (reviewed here), Polene numero un bag (reviewed here)}

First a note on sizing: I'm wearing a XS/S here and find that it fits perfectly.  Since this is a naturally more oversized top, I went with a smaller size.  The sleeves are on the more fitted side because of that, but not too small that it gets stuck on my bicep.  Also since I'm on the petite side, the smaller size fits me well.  

I really love that the neck-hole on this top is not that wide.  My 2nd generation Elizabeth Suzann Georgia Tee is of a similar shape and style but sometimes I find that the neck hole is too large and my bra straps show.  I have no problems with that with the Alta Top.  I also really love the parabola shape at the hem of the Alta top, which makes it more cropped in the front than in the back.  I find the cropped look goes really well my high-waisted elastic bottoms like the Everlane Chinos up top or the Elizabeth Suzann Clyde skirt below.  But at the same time, it's not too cropped.  It falls somewhere between my Petra crop from ES and the Georgia Tee.  Also I love that the sleeves of the Alta top are more fitted than my Georgia Tee (don't get me wrong I still love the wing tips of my Georgia Tee sleeves but sometimes you want a more fitted sleeve to fit under a jacket and the Alta top is the perfect candidate to layer with).  I think if you don't want as much of a cropped front, you can size up (so I would size up to S/M).

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{Wearing: Only Child Alta top in raw silk, Elizabeth Suzann Clyde Billow Skirt, Everlane Day Heels (reviewed here), Celine Small Cabas Phantom (similar here, reviewed here)}

And last buy not least, I love that raw silk that this Alta top is made of.  The eggshell color is the perfect white but it's opaque enough not to show a nude bra.  I also think because the top falls away from the body, you aren't as likely to see the outline of your bra.  I'm a huge fan of raw silk not only because it's machine washable, but also because it has a nubby texture that makes it way more interesting than a cotton top.  Also the raw silk is structured a bit like linen so it can hold its shape well, but at the same time doesn't wrinkle as much as linen.  I've been a fan of raw silk since trying out the tops from Jamie and the Jones (review here and here), but I decided to let those pieces go because I don't wear them as much.  I think in the end it comes down to styling, and for me Only Child fits my style to the tee.  Also if I were to compare this to the J+J blank canvas top, this Alta top is not nearly as wide and not as cropped.  And the neck-hole is smaller than the J+J one.

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{Wearing: Only Child Alta Top, Elizabeth Suzann line Clydes (reviewed here), Everlane V Slingback (reviewed here), Celine Small Cabas Phantom (similar here, reviewed here)}

Anyway I can't recommend this Alta top enough.  Like I said I really want to get another one of these (maybe in black) because it's the perfect casual yet elevated tee!

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{March 2021 update: I’m still in love with this cream-colored raw silk Alta top and wear it weekly 2.5 years later. I also loved it to much that I got it in black raw silk in a true XS/S size (pictured above), which I also love. My first eggshell Alta was a sample, which I realize is more cropped and all around smaller than the true XS/S. Having tried this black one in the right size, I’ll say the XS/S runs tts and isn’t too cropped nor too oversized. I got another black Alta after I tried and then sold my linen Alta top which I reviewed here. Currently OC is phasing out the raw silk (but they still make it in eggshell and black, the two colors I currently have) and instead use a cotton/silk (70/30) blend for their new colors (that sand dollar greige is pretty dreamy). I’m curious to try it out and may splurge on another Alta, in which case I’d update this review again!}

Valentino Rockstud Heels & Rockstud Flats Review

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Hi guys and hope you all had a wonderful Christmas!  Back with a review today (this one's for you Edwina), but it's not quite the same as my usual reviews since this is a bit of a high-end item.  But if these shoes were made in Italy and I'm assuming by skilled craftsmen (as most high-end luxury items usually are--though now that I research it, Valentino really needs more transparency about their production because I can't find anything on it).  For me these are definitely considered slow fashion since I've had the same pair of Valentino rockstuds (the 2.5" kitten heel ones) for over 3 years and I've worn them to pretty much any function that requires dressy shoes (basically to every wedding and holiday party in the last 3 years along with some Vegas nightclubs).  And because these are high-end luxury shoes they have held up like a beast.  Seriously, Vegas nightclubs are not a good place for shoes (people stepping on your feet and drinks spilling all the time).  But they look almost as good as they day I bought them.  The elastic for the small buckles are still holding up, all the leather is still good and no major marks on them (but that's also because I went with nude patent and it's fairly hardy compared to the regular leather).  

And because I loved them so much I purchased another pair, a flat version (I think I'm getting old because I can't even handle kitten heels if I have to wear them for over a couple of hours).  And to be honest, I love these flat versions even more.  They are way more comfortable and less prone to blisters than the kitten heel version (3+ years and I still get blisters in the kitten heels sometimes--usually when I have to walk a lot).  I know the age of the Valentino rockstud may be fading (it was trendy for quite a long time) but I don't really care.  I love these shoes for how they look, not just because they're "in".  Sometimes, under certain lighting, these shoes look super blingy and sparkly.  Just what you need in a party shoe.  

As for sizing, I'm usually a 7.5-8 (I wear 7.5 in TOMS, 38 in M.Gemi shoes and 8 in Everlane shoes) and I'm a 38 in these Valentino rockstuds.  The flats are definitely more forgiving than the kitten heels when it comes to my wide feet.

I also love the nude patent because 1) it goes with everything and 2) like I said above, the patent is more forgiving in terms of stains or marks

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Some pictures of the kitten heel version above and below.

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 I also once owned a pair of the 4" heel versions in black patent (pics below) but I couldn't handle the 4" heel.  I am just not a heel kind of gal (to me it's foot torture akin to foot binding--it serves no purpose other than to give women pain but be aesthetically pleasing).  So I sold them awhile ago and they found a happy home.

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But if you've ever contemplated splurging on these heels, trust me they are worth every penny.  And because these shoes have been my only pair of party heels for the last 3 years, I think the cost per wear is somewhere in $50 range (that's not great, but also beats buying $80 Aldo party shoes 3 years in a row and then donating them to Goodwill. Plus how many wears can an Aldo shoe really take?).  I see it that at least this way, these party shoes will last me several more years  and each year I'm not contributing to the pile of party shoes that end up in landfills.  These may quite possibly be the last pairs of party shoes I'll ever purchase.  Now that's slow fashion.

P.S. I'm curious to know how do you guys feel about luxury items.  Yes, they're ridiculously priced but at the same time they are made by skilled craftsmen who should be paid fairly well (I mean I'm sure Chanel pays more than minimum wage right?) and they're made to last.  Luxury items can also be mended and rejuvenated (like bag spas for handbags and cobblers for shoes).  Plus most authentic luxury items can be resold and used lovingly by a number of people before they're chucked. So can they be considered ethical and sustainable?